Invisible chains : overcoming coercive control in your intimate relationship / / Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD |
Autore | Fontes Lisa Aronson |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (220 pages) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Dominance (Psychology)
Control (Psychology) Interpersonal relations Intimate partner violence Intimidation |
Soggetto genere / forma | Electronic books. |
ISBN |
1-4625-2066-9
1-4625-2074-X 1-4625-2024-3 1-4625-2036-7 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Cover; Praise for Invisible Chains; Half Title Page; Also by Lisa Aronson Fontes; Title Page; Copyright; Dedication; Contents; About This Book; How to Use This Book; Who I Am and Why I Wrote This Book; Part I. What Is Coercive Control?; 1. Introduction to Coercive Control; The Continuum of Coercive Control; Coercive Control in Context; 2. Controlling Behaviors; Isolating; Cutting Off Contacts; Cutting Off Access to Employment and Money; Ruining Her Reputation and Relationships; Isolating through Technology; Isolating Immigrant Women; The Special Isolation of Military Families
Coercive EntrapmentResisting Isolation; Micromanaging Everyday Life and Setting Rules; Stalking and Monitoring; Abusing Physically and Sexually; Threatening and Punishing; Guns and Other Weapons; Manipulating; Lying; Withholding and the Silent Treatment; Mind Games and Gaslighting; Manipulating through Status and Special Skills; Belittling and Degrading; More Than Just Insults; Degrading through Sex; Extreme Degradation; Controlling a Woman through Her Children; Distancing a Mother from Her Children; Undermining Her Parenting; Threatening Her Children; Part II. Why Coercive Control Happens 3. Why Some Men Control Their Partners in This WayChildren Learn Their Gender Roles; Boys Learn to Control and Abuse; This Moment in History; Men's Struggles InfluenceTheir Behavior; Trauma; Alcohol, Drugs, and Mental Illness; Why Some Men Won't Let Go; 4. Why Some Women Get and Stay Involved; All Women Are Vulnerable; Trapped by Romance, Love, and Confused Feelings; Trapped by Gender Expectations; Trapped by Caretaking; Trapped by Circumstances; Trapped by Violence and Threats; Managing the Unmanageable; Resisting Every Day: Control in the Context of Being Controlled Part III. Coercive Control in Specific Populations5. Different Gender Arrangements and Coercive Control; LGBT People Facing Coercive Control; Women Using Coercive Control with Their Male Partners; 6. Teenage Victims of Coercive Control; Teenagers' Vulnerabilities; Isolation, Stalking, and Possessiveness; Image Management; Physical Abuse and Domination; Drinking and Drugs; Sexual Pressure; Cell Phones and Computers; Teens with Older Partners; Pregnant and Mothering Teens; LGBT Teens; Young People Helping Each Other; For Adults Who Care about Teens; Part IV. Ending Coercive Control 7. Are You Being Victimized?Assessing the Relationship; Controlling Relationship Assessment; Assessing Lethality: Risk of Death; Assessing Your Coping Strategies; Final Thoughts on Assessing Your Relationship; Reaching a Decision; 8. Are You Staying? Expecting Change?; Staying in the Relationship; If a Controlling Person Wants to Change; How Do You Know If a Controlling or Abusive Person Has Changed?; When a Controlling Man Stops Being Physically Violent; 9. Ending the Relationship; Seek Support; Domestic Violence Agencies; Therapy or Counseling; Medical Help; Police and Advocates How Will the Abuser Respond If You End the Relationship? |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910463695003321 |
Fontes Lisa Aronson
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New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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Invisible chains : overcoming coercive control in your intimate relationship / / Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD |
Autore | Fontes Lisa Aronson |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (220 pages) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Dominance (Psychology)
Control (Psychology) Interpersonal relations Intimate partner violence Intimidation |
ISBN |
1-4625-2066-9
1-4625-2074-X 1-4625-2024-3 1-4625-2036-7 |
Classificazione | SEL001000PSY017000MED105000SOC025000 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Cover; Praise for Invisible Chains; Half Title Page; Also by Lisa Aronson Fontes; Title Page; Copyright; Dedication; Contents; About This Book; How to Use This Book; Who I Am and Why I Wrote This Book; Part I. What Is Coercive Control?; 1. Introduction to Coercive Control; The Continuum of Coercive Control; Coercive Control in Context; 2. Controlling Behaviors; Isolating; Cutting Off Contacts; Cutting Off Access to Employment and Money; Ruining Her Reputation and Relationships; Isolating through Technology; Isolating Immigrant Women; The Special Isolation of Military Families
Coercive EntrapmentResisting Isolation; Micromanaging Everyday Life and Setting Rules; Stalking and Monitoring; Abusing Physically and Sexually; Threatening and Punishing; Guns and Other Weapons; Manipulating; Lying; Withholding and the Silent Treatment; Mind Games and Gaslighting; Manipulating through Status and Special Skills; Belittling and Degrading; More Than Just Insults; Degrading through Sex; Extreme Degradation; Controlling a Woman through Her Children; Distancing a Mother from Her Children; Undermining Her Parenting; Threatening Her Children; Part II. Why Coercive Control Happens 3. Why Some Men Control Their Partners in This WayChildren Learn Their Gender Roles; Boys Learn to Control and Abuse; This Moment in History; Men's Struggles InfluenceTheir Behavior; Trauma; Alcohol, Drugs, and Mental Illness; Why Some Men Won't Let Go; 4. Why Some Women Get and Stay Involved; All Women Are Vulnerable; Trapped by Romance, Love, and Confused Feelings; Trapped by Gender Expectations; Trapped by Caretaking; Trapped by Circumstances; Trapped by Violence and Threats; Managing the Unmanageable; Resisting Every Day: Control in the Context of Being Controlled Part III. Coercive Control in Specific Populations5. Different Gender Arrangements and Coercive Control; LGBT People Facing Coercive Control; Women Using Coercive Control with Their Male Partners; 6. Teenage Victims of Coercive Control; Teenagers' Vulnerabilities; Isolation, Stalking, and Possessiveness; Image Management; Physical Abuse and Domination; Drinking and Drugs; Sexual Pressure; Cell Phones and Computers; Teens with Older Partners; Pregnant and Mothering Teens; LGBT Teens; Young People Helping Each Other; For Adults Who Care about Teens; Part IV. Ending Coercive Control 7. Are You Being Victimized?Assessing the Relationship; Controlling Relationship Assessment; Assessing Lethality: Risk of Death; Assessing Your Coping Strategies; Final Thoughts on Assessing Your Relationship; Reaching a Decision; 8. Are You Staying? Expecting Change?; Staying in the Relationship; If a Controlling Person Wants to Change; How Do You Know If a Controlling or Abusive Person Has Changed?; When a Controlling Man Stops Being Physically Violent; 9. Ending the Relationship; Seek Support; Domestic Violence Agencies; Therapy or Counseling; Medical Help; Police and Advocates How Will the Abuser Respond If You End the Relationship? |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910788148803321 |
Fontes Lisa Aronson
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New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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Invisible chains : overcoming coercive control in your intimate relationship / / Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD |
Autore | Fontes Lisa Aronson |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (220 pages) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Dominance (Psychology)
Control (Psychology) Interpersonal relations Intimate partner violence Intimidation |
ISBN |
1-4625-2066-9
1-4625-2074-X 1-4625-2024-3 1-4625-2036-7 |
Classificazione | SEL001000PSY017000MED105000SOC025000 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Cover; Praise for Invisible Chains; Half Title Page; Also by Lisa Aronson Fontes; Title Page; Copyright; Dedication; Contents; About This Book; How to Use This Book; Who I Am and Why I Wrote This Book; Part I. What Is Coercive Control?; 1. Introduction to Coercive Control; The Continuum of Coercive Control; Coercive Control in Context; 2. Controlling Behaviors; Isolating; Cutting Off Contacts; Cutting Off Access to Employment and Money; Ruining Her Reputation and Relationships; Isolating through Technology; Isolating Immigrant Women; The Special Isolation of Military Families
Coercive EntrapmentResisting Isolation; Micromanaging Everyday Life and Setting Rules; Stalking and Monitoring; Abusing Physically and Sexually; Threatening and Punishing; Guns and Other Weapons; Manipulating; Lying; Withholding and the Silent Treatment; Mind Games and Gaslighting; Manipulating through Status and Special Skills; Belittling and Degrading; More Than Just Insults; Degrading through Sex; Extreme Degradation; Controlling a Woman through Her Children; Distancing a Mother from Her Children; Undermining Her Parenting; Threatening Her Children; Part II. Why Coercive Control Happens 3. Why Some Men Control Their Partners in This WayChildren Learn Their Gender Roles; Boys Learn to Control and Abuse; This Moment in History; Men's Struggles InfluenceTheir Behavior; Trauma; Alcohol, Drugs, and Mental Illness; Why Some Men Won't Let Go; 4. Why Some Women Get and Stay Involved; All Women Are Vulnerable; Trapped by Romance, Love, and Confused Feelings; Trapped by Gender Expectations; Trapped by Caretaking; Trapped by Circumstances; Trapped by Violence and Threats; Managing the Unmanageable; Resisting Every Day: Control in the Context of Being Controlled Part III. Coercive Control in Specific Populations5. Different Gender Arrangements and Coercive Control; LGBT People Facing Coercive Control; Women Using Coercive Control with Their Male Partners; 6. Teenage Victims of Coercive Control; Teenagers' Vulnerabilities; Isolation, Stalking, and Possessiveness; Image Management; Physical Abuse and Domination; Drinking and Drugs; Sexual Pressure; Cell Phones and Computers; Teens with Older Partners; Pregnant and Mothering Teens; LGBT Teens; Young People Helping Each Other; For Adults Who Care about Teens; Part IV. Ending Coercive Control 7. Are You Being Victimized?Assessing the Relationship; Controlling Relationship Assessment; Assessing Lethality: Risk of Death; Assessing Your Coping Strategies; Final Thoughts on Assessing Your Relationship; Reaching a Decision; 8. Are You Staying? Expecting Change?; Staying in the Relationship; If a Controlling Person Wants to Change; How Do You Know If a Controlling or Abusive Person Has Changed?; When a Controlling Man Stops Being Physically Violent; 9. Ending the Relationship; Seek Support; Domestic Violence Agencies; Therapy or Counseling; Medical Help; Police and Advocates How Will the Abuser Respond If You End the Relationship? |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910819963503321 |
Fontes Lisa Aronson
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New York, New York ; ; London, [England] : , : The Guilford Press, , 2015 | ||
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Knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships / / Paul C. Rosenblatt and Elizabeth Wieling [[electronic resource]] |
Autore | Rosenblatt Paul C. |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (viii, 198 pages) : digital, PDF file(s) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Intimacy (Psychology)
Interpersonal relations Couples - Psychology |
ISBN |
1-139-89330-0
1-107-42539-5 1-107-42317-1 1-107-56239-2 1-107-41746-5 1-139-64954-X 1-107-42008-3 1-107-42139-X 1-107-41875-5 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Contents; Acknowledgments; Chapter One Knowing and not knowing are central to intimacy; What are knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships?; Why intimate knowing and not knowing are so important; Knowing the other well does not guarantee an easy relationship; Trust as foundation for knowing; The cultural context of this work; How we did the research; Phenomenology of knowing and not knowing; We interviewed only one person in a couple; How we recruited interviewees; The interview; The people interviewed; Transcribing; Data analysis; Validity/data quality
How much the quotes are the truth (versus just what was said)Chapter Two How couples build knowledge of one another; Trying to know the other; Getting to know one another at the start of the relationship; Previous acquaintanceship; Testimony of others about a potential partner; Revealing important information about oneself up front; Early knowing of the others family and friends; Insight into why propinquity is important in finding a partner; Practical reasons for knowing and being known in ongoing couples; Knowing and being known as intimacy; Curiosity, being nosy, prying, snooping Wanting to be knownTruth as a value; Spending considerable time together; Confrontation; Being able to see behind the façade; Feeling safe; Good listening; Getting to higher levels of knowing and being known; Conclusion; Chapter Three How well do you know each other? about 90%; Not much is held back; The 10% that is not known; Experts on each other; Doubts and limits in knowing; How do you know how well you know the other?; After a break-up; What the partner says about how well you know her or him; Predictability of the other; Conclusion Chapter Four Concerns about the other's potential reaction to something not yet revealedConcerns when the relationship is relatively new; Concerns with partner knowing about ones past relationships; Concerns about money; Concerns about the others reactions to ones health issues; Concerns about disagreeing; Concerns about the others reactions to ones failures; Concerns about the others reaction to ones emotional pain; Concerns about hurting the partners feelings; Concerns about the partner having contact with ones family; Concerns about causing family (not just couple) conflict Overcoming concerns about the partner knowing somethingMaking sense of peoples concerns about disclosing to a partner; Chapter Five What people cannot or would rather not know; There is too much to know; Curiosity limits; Inability to grasp partner realities; Not always wanting to know the truth; Information exchange when a relationship is not doing well; Conclusion; Chapter Six Processes in being a judicious nondiscloser; "Need to know" decision process; Selectivity processes; Tell the general truth but not the specifics; Hide things from your partner that will make big problems Hide truths from yourself |
Altri titoli varianti | Knowing & Not Knowing in Intimate Relationships |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910453132703321 |
Rosenblatt Paul C.
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Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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Knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships / / Paul C. Rosenblatt and Elizabeth Wieling [[electronic resource]] |
Autore | Rosenblatt Paul C. |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (viii, 198 pages) : digital, PDF file(s) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Intimacy (Psychology)
Interpersonal relations Couples - Psychology |
ISBN |
1-139-89330-0
1-107-42539-5 1-107-42317-1 1-107-56239-2 1-107-41746-5 1-139-64954-X 1-107-42008-3 1-107-42139-X 1-107-41875-5 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Contents; Acknowledgments; Chapter One Knowing and not knowing are central to intimacy; What are knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships?; Why intimate knowing and not knowing are so important; Knowing the other well does not guarantee an easy relationship; Trust as foundation for knowing; The cultural context of this work; How we did the research; Phenomenology of knowing and not knowing; We interviewed only one person in a couple; How we recruited interviewees; The interview; The people interviewed; Transcribing; Data analysis; Validity/data quality
How much the quotes are the truth (versus just what was said)Chapter Two How couples build knowledge of one another; Trying to know the other; Getting to know one another at the start of the relationship; Previous acquaintanceship; Testimony of others about a potential partner; Revealing important information about oneself up front; Early knowing of the others family and friends; Insight into why propinquity is important in finding a partner; Practical reasons for knowing and being known in ongoing couples; Knowing and being known as intimacy; Curiosity, being nosy, prying, snooping Wanting to be knownTruth as a value; Spending considerable time together; Confrontation; Being able to see behind the façade; Feeling safe; Good listening; Getting to higher levels of knowing and being known; Conclusion; Chapter Three How well do you know each other? about 90%; Not much is held back; The 10% that is not known; Experts on each other; Doubts and limits in knowing; How do you know how well you know the other?; After a break-up; What the partner says about how well you know her or him; Predictability of the other; Conclusion Chapter Four Concerns about the other's potential reaction to something not yet revealedConcerns when the relationship is relatively new; Concerns with partner knowing about ones past relationships; Concerns about money; Concerns about the others reactions to ones health issues; Concerns about disagreeing; Concerns about the others reactions to ones failures; Concerns about the others reaction to ones emotional pain; Concerns about hurting the partners feelings; Concerns about the partner having contact with ones family; Concerns about causing family (not just couple) conflict Overcoming concerns about the partner knowing somethingMaking sense of peoples concerns about disclosing to a partner; Chapter Five What people cannot or would rather not know; There is too much to know; Curiosity limits; Inability to grasp partner realities; Not always wanting to know the truth; Information exchange when a relationship is not doing well; Conclusion; Chapter Six Processes in being a judicious nondiscloser; "Need to know" decision process; Selectivity processes; Tell the general truth but not the specifics; Hide things from your partner that will make big problems Hide truths from yourself |
Altri titoli varianti | Knowing & Not Knowing in Intimate Relationships |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910790697603321 |
Rosenblatt Paul C.
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Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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Knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships / / Paul C. Rosenblatt and Elizabeth Wieling [[electronic resource]] |
Autore | Rosenblatt Paul C. |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (viii, 198 pages) : digital, PDF file(s) |
Disciplina | 158.2/4 |
Soggetto topico |
Intimacy (Psychology)
Interpersonal relations Couples - Psychology |
ISBN |
1-139-89330-0
1-107-42539-5 1-107-42317-1 1-107-56239-2 1-107-41746-5 1-139-64954-X 1-107-42008-3 1-107-42139-X 1-107-41875-5 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Contents; Acknowledgments; Chapter One Knowing and not knowing are central to intimacy; What are knowing and not knowing in intimate relationships?; Why intimate knowing and not knowing are so important; Knowing the other well does not guarantee an easy relationship; Trust as foundation for knowing; The cultural context of this work; How we did the research; Phenomenology of knowing and not knowing; We interviewed only one person in a couple; How we recruited interviewees; The interview; The people interviewed; Transcribing; Data analysis; Validity/data quality
How much the quotes are the truth (versus just what was said)Chapter Two How couples build knowledge of one another; Trying to know the other; Getting to know one another at the start of the relationship; Previous acquaintanceship; Testimony of others about a potential partner; Revealing important information about oneself up front; Early knowing of the others family and friends; Insight into why propinquity is important in finding a partner; Practical reasons for knowing and being known in ongoing couples; Knowing and being known as intimacy; Curiosity, being nosy, prying, snooping Wanting to be knownTruth as a value; Spending considerable time together; Confrontation; Being able to see behind the façade; Feeling safe; Good listening; Getting to higher levels of knowing and being known; Conclusion; Chapter Three How well do you know each other? about 90%; Not much is held back; The 10% that is not known; Experts on each other; Doubts and limits in knowing; How do you know how well you know the other?; After a break-up; What the partner says about how well you know her or him; Predictability of the other; Conclusion Chapter Four Concerns about the other's potential reaction to something not yet revealedConcerns when the relationship is relatively new; Concerns with partner knowing about ones past relationships; Concerns about money; Concerns about the others reactions to ones health issues; Concerns about disagreeing; Concerns about the others reactions to ones failures; Concerns about the others reaction to ones emotional pain; Concerns about hurting the partners feelings; Concerns about the partner having contact with ones family; Concerns about causing family (not just couple) conflict Overcoming concerns about the partner knowing somethingMaking sense of peoples concerns about disclosing to a partner; Chapter Five What people cannot or would rather not know; There is too much to know; Curiosity limits; Inability to grasp partner realities; Not always wanting to know the truth; Information exchange when a relationship is not doing well; Conclusion; Chapter Six Processes in being a judicious nondiscloser; "Need to know" decision process; Selectivity processes; Tell the general truth but not the specifics; Hide things from your partner that will make big problems Hide truths from yourself |
Altri titoli varianti | Knowing & Not Knowing in Intimate Relationships |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910821660603321 |
Rosenblatt Paul C.
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Cambridge : , : Cambridge University Press, , 2013 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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