29 rules for smart parenting : how to raise children without being a tyrant / / Rolf Arnold |
Autore | Arnold Rolf <1952-> |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | Lanham, Maryland : , : Rowman & Littlefield, , 2015 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (104 p.) |
Disciplina | 306.874 |
Soggetto topico |
Parenting
Parent and child Teaching Teacher-student relationships |
ISBN | 1-4758-1472-0 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Cover-Page; Half-Title; Title; Copyright; Contents; Preface: Parenting requires substance and underpinning; The Rules of Smart Parenting; Rule 1: When you feel your child or adolescent is "difficult," before reacting out of anger or disappointment, go back to the source of your love!; Rule 2: When confronted with violence-show no fear. Meet and defuse it by projecting a controlled presence!; Rule 3: If you feel the need to impose sanctions or punishment, first perform a "culpability" check. Keep the level of punishment low in relation to the damages suffered!
Rule 4: Live by the values you want your child to be committed to in life!Rule 5: Don't just give an adequate response, have quid pro quo exchanges!; Rule 6: Always look for the impression behind the expression!; Rule 7: Surprise with an unexpected reaction!; Rule 8: Respond with levelheadedness and always be consequential!; Rule 9: Create emotions if they have grown cold!; Rule 10: Direct your parenting measures at the behavior, not at the person!; Rule 11: Practice consistency in child rearing!; Rule 12: Exercise your "parental presence"-the key to effective parenting! Rule 13: Put your parenting practices under the "macroscope" and discover what is preventing your children from doing their homework!Rule 14: Control your child's exposure time to television and other media!; Rule 15: Don't get forced into buying something just to avoid embarrassment!; Rule 16: If you are frustrated, take time alone with your parenting principles and see the reflection in the mirror!; Rule 17: Never forget: It is not your child's behavior, but rather your interpretation of that behavior Rule 18: Practice the art of active listening! Ask questions that require thinking-not interrogations that support predetermined conclusions!Rule 19: Always address every level of the child rearing problem!; Rule 20: Use the BARE essentials: Bonding, Active involvement, Respect for boundaries, and Education!; Rule 21: Make your child the center of attention from time to time! Love is vital!; Rule 22: Improve the hidden influences in your child's learning environment!; Rule 23: Give your children some space: A little distance can bring you even closer! Rule 24: Teach your child self-discipline by looking beyond your own fears and idealistic views!Rule 25: Avoid going down the "dead ends" of child rearing!; Rule 26: Practice 2-way conversations!; Rule 27: Escape from the self-expectations and enjoy the diversity of the world!; Rule 28: Provide encouragement, avoid disciplining!; Rule 29: Avoid overreaction or apologize for it!; Epilogue: The way out of the parenting doldrums; References |
Altri titoli varianti | Twenty nine rules for smart parenting |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910797829303321 |
Arnold Rolf <1952->
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Lanham, Maryland : , : Rowman & Littlefield, , 2015 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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29 rules for smart parenting : how to raise children without being a tyrant / / Rolf Arnold |
Autore | Arnold Rolf <1952-> |
Pubbl/distr/stampa | Lanham, Maryland : , : Rowman & Littlefield, , 2015 |
Descrizione fisica | 1 online resource (104 p.) |
Disciplina | 306.874 |
Soggetto topico |
Parenting
Parent and child Teaching Teacher-student relationships |
ISBN | 1-4758-1472-0 |
Formato | Materiale a stampa ![]() |
Livello bibliografico | Monografia |
Lingua di pubblicazione | eng |
Nota di contenuto |
Cover-Page; Half-Title; Title; Copyright; Contents; Preface: Parenting requires substance and underpinning; The Rules of Smart Parenting; Rule 1: When you feel your child or adolescent is "difficult," before reacting out of anger or disappointment, go back to the source of your love!; Rule 2: When confronted with violence-show no fear. Meet and defuse it by projecting a controlled presence!; Rule 3: If you feel the need to impose sanctions or punishment, first perform a "culpability" check. Keep the level of punishment low in relation to the damages suffered!
Rule 4: Live by the values you want your child to be committed to in life!Rule 5: Don't just give an adequate response, have quid pro quo exchanges!; Rule 6: Always look for the impression behind the expression!; Rule 7: Surprise with an unexpected reaction!; Rule 8: Respond with levelheadedness and always be consequential!; Rule 9: Create emotions if they have grown cold!; Rule 10: Direct your parenting measures at the behavior, not at the person!; Rule 11: Practice consistency in child rearing!; Rule 12: Exercise your "parental presence"-the key to effective parenting! Rule 13: Put your parenting practices under the "macroscope" and discover what is preventing your children from doing their homework!Rule 14: Control your child's exposure time to television and other media!; Rule 15: Don't get forced into buying something just to avoid embarrassment!; Rule 16: If you are frustrated, take time alone with your parenting principles and see the reflection in the mirror!; Rule 17: Never forget: It is not your child's behavior, but rather your interpretation of that behavior Rule 18: Practice the art of active listening! Ask questions that require thinking-not interrogations that support predetermined conclusions!Rule 19: Always address every level of the child rearing problem!; Rule 20: Use the BARE essentials: Bonding, Active involvement, Respect for boundaries, and Education!; Rule 21: Make your child the center of attention from time to time! Love is vital!; Rule 22: Improve the hidden influences in your child's learning environment!; Rule 23: Give your children some space: A little distance can bring you even closer! Rule 24: Teach your child self-discipline by looking beyond your own fears and idealistic views!Rule 25: Avoid going down the "dead ends" of child rearing!; Rule 26: Practice 2-way conversations!; Rule 27: Escape from the self-expectations and enjoy the diversity of the world!; Rule 28: Provide encouragement, avoid disciplining!; Rule 29: Avoid overreaction or apologize for it!; Epilogue: The way out of the parenting doldrums; References |
Altri titoli varianti | Twenty nine rules for smart parenting |
Record Nr. | UNINA-9910809433703321 |
Arnold Rolf <1952->
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Lanham, Maryland : , : Rowman & Littlefield, , 2015 | ||
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Lo trovi qui: Univ. Federico II | ||
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