LEADER 03838nam 2200685 a 450 001 996198836503316 005 20200520144314.0 010 $a9786612157790 010 $a1-282-15779-5 010 $a1-4008-2675-6 010 $a0-691-12408-6 024 7 $a10.1515/9781400826759 035 $a(CKB)2560000000324402 035 $a(EBL)457949 035 $a(OCoLC)438735618 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000230758 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11198662 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000230758 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10198365 035 $a(PQKB)10543832 035 $a(MdBmJHUP)muse36341 035 $a(DE-B1597)446467 035 $a(OCoLC)979631814 035 $a(DE-B1597)9781400826759 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL457949 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10312512 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL215779 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC457949 035 $a(EXLCZ)992560000000324402 100 $a20050322d2005 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 14$aThe purchase of intimacy$b[electronic resource] /$fViviana A. Zelizer 205 $aCourse Book 210 $aPrinceton, N.J. $cPrinceton University Press$dc2005 215 $a1 online resource (368 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a0-691-13063-9 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. [309]-345) and index. 327 $t Frontmatter -- $tContents -- $tAcknowledgments -- $tPrologue -- $tChapter 1. Encounters of Intimacy and Economy -- $tChapter 2. Intimacy in Law -- $tChapter 3. Coupling -- $tChapter 4. Caring Relations -- $tChapter 5. Household Commerce -- $tChapter 6. Intimate Revelations -- $tReferences -- $tIndex 330 $aIn their personal lives, people consider it essential to separate economics and intimacy. We have, for example, a long-standing taboo against workplace romance, while we see marital love as different from prostitution because it is not a fundamentally financial exchange. In The Purchase of Intimacy, Viviana Zelizer mounts a provocative challenge to this view. Getting to the heart of one of life's greatest taboos, she shows how we all use economic activity to create, maintain, and renegotiate important ties--especially intimate ties--to other people. In everyday life, we invest intense effort and worry to strike the right balance. For example, when a wife's income equals or surpasses her husband's, how much more time should the man devote to household chores or child care? Sometimes legal disputes arise. Should the surviving partner in a same-sex relationship have received compensation for a partner's death as a result of 9/11? Through a host of compelling examples, Zelizer shows us why price is central to three key areas of intimacy: sexually tinged relations; health care by family members, friends, and professionals; and household economics. She draws both on research and materials ranging from reports on compensation to survivors of 9/11 victims to financial management Web sites and advice books for same-sex couples. From the bedroom to the courtroom, The Purchase of Intimacy opens a fascinating new window on the inner workings of the economic processes that pervade our private lives. 606 $aCouples$xFinance, Personal 606 $aInterpersonal relations$xEconomic aspects 606 $aFinancial security 615 0$aCouples$xFinance, Personal. 615 0$aInterpersonal relations$xEconomic aspects. 615 0$aFinancial security. 676 $a332.024/01/0865 686 $a77.63$2bcl 700 $aZelizer$b Viviana A. Rotman$0510143 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a996198836503316 996 $aPurchase of intimacy$91771269 997 $aUNISA