LEADER 04185nam 22007455 450 001 9910973884103321 005 20250922211950.0 010 $a9781283898959 010 $a1283898950 010 $a9780812207408 010 $a0812207408 024 7 $a10.9783/9780812207408 035 $a(CKB)2550000000707694 035 $a(OCoLC)835765742 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebrary10642132 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000818897 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11974516 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000818897 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10843447 035 $a(PQKB)10001195 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000811502 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)12349364 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000811502 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10865266 035 $a(PQKB)11383911 035 $a(DE-B1597)449522 035 $a(OCoLC)979577065 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780812207408 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3441797 035 $a(Perlego)732114 035 $a(EXLCZ)992550000000707694 100 $a20190708d2012 fg 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcn||||||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aNot in This Family $eGays and the Meaning of Kinship in Postwar North America /$fHeather Murray 205 $a1st ed. 210 1$aPhiladelphia :$cUniversity of Pennsylvania Press,$d[2012] 210 4$dİ2011 215 $a1 online resource (308 p.) 225 0 $aPolitics and Culture in Modern America 300 $aBibliographic Level Mode of Issuance: Monograph 311 08$a9780812222241 311 08$a0812222245 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. [197]-279) and index. 327 $tFront matter --$tCONTENTS --$tINTRODUCTION --$t1. Daughters and Sons for the Rest of Their Lives --$t2. Better Blatant Than Latent --$t3. What's Wrong with the Boys Nowadays? --$t4. Out of the Closets, Out of the Kitchens --$t5. ''Every Generation Has Its War'' --$tEPILOGUE. Mom, Dad, I'm Gay --$tNOTES --$tSELECTED BIBLIOGRAPHY --$tINDEX 330 $aMany Americans hold fast to the notion that gay men and women, more often than not, have been ostracized from disapproving families. Not in This Family challenges this myth and shows how kinship ties were an animating force in gay culture, politics, and consciousness throughout the latter half of the twentieth century. Historian Heather Murray gives voice to gays and their parents through an extensive use of introspective writings, particularly personal correspondence and diaries, as well as through published memoirs, fiction, poetry, song lyrics, movies, and visual and print media. Starting in the late 1940's and 1950's, Not in This Family covers the entire postwar period, including the gay liberation and lesbian feminist movements of the 1960's and 1970's, the establishment of PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays), and the AIDS crisis of the 1980's and 1990's. Ending her story with an examination of contemporary coming-out rituals, Murray shows how the personal that was once private became political and, finally, public. In exploring the intimate, reciprocal relationship of gay children and their parents, Not in This Family also chronicles larger cultural shifts in privacy, discretion and public revelation, and the very purpose of family relations. Murray shows that private bedrooms and consumer culture, social movements and psychological fashions, all had a part to play in transforming the modern family. 606 $aGay men$zUnited States$xHistory$y20th century 606 $aGay men$xFamily relationships$zUnited States$xHistory$y20th century 606 $aLGBTQ+ families$2homoit$3https://homosaurus.org/v4/homoit0000420 606 $aParents of LGBTQ+ people$2homoit$3https://homosaurus.org/v4/homoit0002224 615 0$aGay men$xHistory 615 0$aGay men$xFamily relationships$xHistory 615 7$aLGBTQ+ families. 615 7$aParents of LGBTQ+ people. 676 $a306.7662097309045 700 $aMurray$b Heather A. A.$01848546 801 0$bDE-B1597 801 1$bDE-B1597 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910973884103321 996 $aNot in This Family$94435656 997 $aUNINA