LEADER 04170nam 2200613 a 450 001 9910972121903321 005 20251116142417.0 010 $a1-4175-2067-1 035 $a(CKB)111035898506278 035 $a(EBL)3116901 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000197046 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11179060 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000197046 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10154112 035 $a(PQKB)10426328 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3116901 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL3116901 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10057984 035 $a(OCoLC)922966899 035 $a(BIP)13176390 035 $a(BIP)1820960 035 $a(EXLCZ)99111035898506278 100 $a19940808d1995 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aManaging negative people $estrategies for success /$fS. Michael Kravitz 210 $aMenlo Park, Calif. $cCrisp Publications$dc1995 215 $a1 online resource (86 p.) 225 1 $aA fifty-minute series book 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 08$a1-56052-306-9 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 72). 327 $a""OTHER CAUSES OF NEGATIVE, DIFFICULT PEOPLE""""VALUES-DRIVEN MOTIVATION""; ""SELF-ESTEEM""; ""ATTITUDES""; ""Self-Esteem and Attitudes""; ""Self-Esteem and Attitude Assessment""; ""Assessment Interpretation""; ""NORMS""; ""Summary""; ""SECTION II Dealing with Negativity""; ""DEALING WITH OTHERSa??? NEGATIVITY""; ""SKILL #1: Avoid Personalizing""; ""SKILL #2: Use a???Ia??? Messages""; ""SKILL #3: Deal with Their Anger""; ""Breathe Slowly and Regularly""; ""Speak in a Calm Manner""; ""USE THE UAR PROCESS""; ""Deal with Their Anger""; ""Remove Yourself from Irrational People"" 327 $a""SKILL #4: Confornt Negative Conflict""""SKILL #5 Turn Things Around""; ""Using Opposite Statements""; ""Asking What Can Be Done""; ""WHEN YOU ARE THE NEGATIVE PERSON""; ""SECTION III Understanding Negatorsa??? Styles""; ""NEGATOR STYLES""; ""Identifying Negator Styles""; ""NEGATOR STYLE QUIZ""; ""Interpretation""; ""The Most Difficult Negator Styles""; ""Personal Style and Ability to Deal with Negators""; ""MATCHING COMMUNICATION STRATEGIES""; ""SECTION IV Overcoming Negativity Using the BEEP System""; ""TURNING UNDERSTANDING INTO ACTION""; ""BE BOLD AND ASSERTIVE WITH NEGATORS"" 327 $a""EXPRESS THE PROBLEM AND SOLUTION CLEARLY""""STEP 1: Describe Behaviors and Determine Causes""; ""Evaluate the Causes""; ""STEP 2: Develop Solutions and Prepare a Script""; ""PREPARE A SCRIPT IN ADVANCE""; ""Preparing a Script""; ""EXPECT TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS""; ""Goal Achievement Assessment""; ""Scoring and Interpretation""; ""PRACTICE POSITIVE THINKING""; ""The AM/FM Approach""; ""An Everyday Example""; ""Tune in to Your Own a???Positivitya???""; ""Personal Worksheet for Positive Thinking: AM/FM Process""; ""Practice Makes It Perfect""; ""SECTION V Developing Your Action Plan"" 327 $a""BUILD YOUR POSITIVITY MUSCLES""""Positivity Building Survey""; ""Scoring and Interpretation""; ""Practice the Diamond Rule""; ""Personal Needs Survey""; ""Increase Relaxation""; ""Scheduling""; ""Experiencing Pleasant Events""; ""Natural Ways to Feel Good""; ""Taking Care of Your Body Through Diet and Sleep""; ""APPLY YOUR KNOWLEDGE""; ""REFERENCES""; ""Organizations:""; ""Publications:""; ""Assessment Instruments:"" 330 $aNegative people are more likely to be dissatisfied with their lives and jobs, leading to increased absenteeism and lowered productivity. This book has activities and exercises to help readers cope with negativity in others and make their own work more satisfying and productive. 410 0$aFifty-Minute series. 606 $aNegativism 606 $aPersonality and motivation 615 0$aNegativism. 615 0$aPersonality and motivation. 676 $a658.3/045 700 $aKravitz$b S. Michael$01867557 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910972121903321 996 $aManaging negative people$94475177 997 $aUNINA