LEADER 03491nam 2200805 a 450 001 9910791732203321 005 20200520144314.0 010 $a1-84779-796-2 010 $a1-78170-259-4 010 $a1-84779-421-1 024 7 $a10.7765/9781847794215 035 $a(CKB)2560000000085687 035 $a(EBL)1069733 035 $a(OCoLC)818847548 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000712805 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)12260081 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000712805 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10650845 035 $a(PQKB)11110365 035 $a(StDuBDS)EDZ0000085791 035 $a(OCoLC)1132669608 035 $a(MdBmJHUP)muse78005 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL1069733 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10627265 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL843512 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC1069733 035 $a(DE-B1597)660227 035 $a(DE-B1597)9781847794215 035 $a(EXLCZ)992560000000085687 100 $a20111201d2011 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aLove, intimacy and power$b[electronic resource] $emarriage and patriarchy in Scotland, 1650-1850 /$fKatie Barclay 210 $aManchester ;$aNew York $cManchester University Press$d2011 215 $a1 online resource (233 p.) 225 0 $aGender in History 225 0$aGender in history 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a0-7190-9555-7 311 $a0-7190-8490-3 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aCopyright; Contents; Acknowledgements; List of tables; 1. Introduction: thinking patriarchy; 2. Marriage within Scottish culture; 3. The first step to marriage: courtship; 4. The construction of patriarchy: love, obligation and obedience; 5. The negotiation of patriarchy: intimacy, friendship and duty; 6. The ambiguities of patriarchy: the marital economy; 7. When negotiation fails: the abuses of patriarchy; 8. Conclusion: rethinking patriarchy; Select bibliography; Index 330 $aThrough an analysis of the correspondence of over one hundred couples from the Scottish elites across the seventeenth to nineteenth centuries, this book explores how ideas around the nature of emotional intimacy, love, and friendship within marriage adapted to a modernising economy and society. Patriarchy continued to be the central model for marriage across the period and as a result, women found spaces to hold power within the family, but could not translate it to power beyond the household. 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Otnes, Elizabeth H. Pleck 205 $a1st ed. 210 $aBerkeley $cUniversity of California Press$dc2003 215 $a1 online resource (401 p.) 225 1 $aLife passages ;$v2 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 08$a9780520236615 311 08$a0520236610 311 08$a9780520240087 311 08$a0520240081 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 281-363) and index. 327 $aRomance, magic, memory, and perfection --$tThe rise of the lavish wedding --$tThe engagement complex --$tThe rituals of wedding shopping --$tThe wedding weekend --$tFrom the cabin to Cancun --$tHollywood hosts a wedding --$tThe lavish wedding goes global --$tVariations on a theme --$tThe allure of the lavish wedding. 330 $aThe fabulous gown, the multitiered cake, abundant flowers, attendants and guests in their finery. The white wedding does more than mark a life passage. It marries two of the most sacred tenets of American culture-romantic love and excessive consumption. For anyone who has ever wondered about the meanings behind a white dress, a diamond ring, rice, and traditions such as cake cutting, bouquet tossing, and honeymooning, this book offers an entertaining and enlightening look at the historical, social, and psychological strains that come together to make the lavish wedding the most important cultural ritual in contemporary consumer culture. With an emphasis on North American society, Cele C. Otnes and Elizabeth H. Pleck show how the elaborate wedding means far more than a mere triumph for the bridal industry. Through interviews, media accounts, and wide-ranging research and analysis, they expose the wedding's reflection-or reproduction-of fundamental aspects of popular consumer culture: its link with romantic love, its promise of magical transformation, its engendering of memories, and its legitimization of consumption as an expression of perfection. 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