LEADER 03555nam 22007691 450 001 9910963239403321 005 20251116233926.0 010 $a0-19-988449-8 010 $a0-19-774338-2 010 $a0-19-534140-6 010 $a1-280-84537-6 010 $a1-4294-5920-4 010 $a0-19-803991-3 024 7 $a10.1093/oso/9780195341409.001.0001 035 $a(CKB)2560000000301355 035 $a(EBL)430936 035 $a(OCoLC)609831611 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000246255 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11227041 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000246255 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10180436 035 $a(PQKB)10784789 035 $a(StDuBDS)EDZ0000082812 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL430936 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10177864 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL84537 035 $a(OCoLC)1406783508 035 $a(StDuBDS)9780197743386 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC430936 035 $a(OCoLC)63108349 035 $a(FINmELB)ELB164371 035 $a(EXLCZ)992560000000301355 100 $a20080225e20232008 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aSingle by chance, mothers by choice $ehow women are choosing parenthood without marriage and creating the new American family /$fRosanna Hertz 205 $a1st ed. 210 1$aNew York ;$cOxford University Press,$d2023. 215 $a1 online resource (294 p.) 225 1 $aOxford scholarship online 300 $aFormerly CIP.$5Uk 300 $aPreviously issued in print: 2008. 311 08$a0-19-517990-0 311 08$a0-19-994411-3 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. [257]-264) and index. 327 $aContents; Prologue; Introduction; Part I: The Big Decision; 1 "Why Can't I Have What I Want?"; 2 Liminality and the Courage to Change: Making the Decision to Become a Single Mother; 3 Moving On: When Baby Makes Two; Part II: After Baby, Now What?; Introduction: "Where Do We Fit?"; 4 The Father As an Idea; 5 Romance, Intimacy, and Pregnancy: Father Involvement Outside of Marriage; 6 Adoption and Fitting In ; Conclusion: Ordinary Lives, Extraordinary Circumstances; Part III: Composing a Family; Introduction: Recycling and Reconstituting Families; 7 What Does Single Mean? 327 $a8 Downshifting Careers While Financing Motherhood: Relying on the Gift-Giver, the Roommate, and the Careworker9 A World Without Men, Amen?; Conclusion: What Does It Mean to Be a Good Mother?; Conclusion: Projecting Single Mothers into the Future; Epilogue: Completing Families, Completing Lives; Appendix 1: Demographic Appendix: Featured Women; Appendix 2: Methods and Sampling; Notes; References; Index; A; B; C; D; E; F; G; H; I; J; K; L; M; N; O; P; Q; R; S; T; U; V; W; Z 330 8 $aDrawing on in-depth personal interviews, Hertz follows individual women as they make the psychological break with traditional expectations and identify specific paths to motherhood. These routes include using known and anonymous donors, adoption, and chancing pregnancy. 410 0$aOxford scholarship online. 606 $aSingle mothers$zUnited States 606 $aFamily$zUnited States 615 0$aSingle mothers 615 0$aFamily 676 $a306.874/3208622 700 $aHertz$b Rosanna$0895058 801 0$bStDuBDS 801 1$bStDuBDS 801 2$bUk 801 2$bStDuBDSZ 801 2$bStDuBDSZ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910963239403321 996 $aSingle by chance, mothers by choice$94526252 997 $aUNINA