LEADER 03055nam 2200649 a 450 001 9910823367803321 005 20240516054909.0 010 $a1-60623-643-1 010 $a1-282-79051-X 010 $a9786612790515 010 $a1-60623-644-X 035 $a(CKB)3390000000011587 035 $a(EBL)690490 035 $a(OCoLC)723945432 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000440536 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)12190854 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000440536 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10470718 035 $a(PQKB)10477407 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC690490 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL690490 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10468527 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL279051 035 $a(EXLCZ)993390000000011587 100 $a20100125d2010 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aOvercoming anger in your relationship $ehow to break the cycle of arguments, put-downs, and stony silences /$fW. Robert Nay 205 $a1st ed. 210 $aNew York $cGuilford Press$dc2010 215 $a1 online resource (272 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a1-60623-642-3 311 $a1-60623-283-5 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aUnderstanding and confronting anger : the promise of change -- Recognizing how anger is pulling your strings -- Creating new boundaries-expecting new behavior -- Identifying the thinking patterns that keep you stuck -- Taking new actions and getting better outcomes -- Loud, impatient, and "over the top" : confronting hostility -- When words do hurt : rejecting sarcasm and verbal abuse -- Threats and beyond : staying off the slippery slope of physical abuse -- Passive anger : what to do when it seems harmless but feels harmful -- Coping with the expected and preparing for the unknown. 330 $aHas your relationship become a battlefield? Does your partner's sarcasm, irritability, or hostility make you wonder where the closeness and trust have gone-and how much more you can take? If anger is poisoning your relationship, this book offers a powerful antidote. Anger expert W. Robert Nay provides clear-cut, practical techniques for responding productively to inappropriate expressions of anger. Learn how anger gains a foothold in a couple's life, why your usual responses may unwittingly reward bad behavior, and how to stand up for yourself in ways that promote lasting change. Self-quizzes 606 $aAnger 606 $aInterpersonal conflict 606 $aInterpersonal relations 606 $aCouples$xPsychology 615 0$aAnger. 615 0$aInterpersonal conflict. 615 0$aInterpersonal relations. 615 0$aCouples$xPsychology. 676 $a152.4/7 700 $aNay$b W. Robert$01636370 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910823367803321 996 $aOvercoming anger in your relationship$93977605 997 $aUNINA