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200 10$aMen and mothers $ethe lifelong struggle of sons and their mothers /$fHendrika C. Freud; Translated by Marjolijn De Jager
205   $aFirst edition.
210   $aLondon $cKarnac Books $c[distributor] Marston Book Services Ltd $c[distributor] Footprint Books $c[distributor] Footprint Books $c[distributor] Stylus Publishing (VA)$d2013
215   $a1 online resource (225 p.)
300   $aDescription based upon print version of record.
311   $a0-367-10124-6 
311   $a1-78049-076-3 
320   $aIncludes bibliographical references and index.
327   $aCOVER; CONTENTS; ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS; FOREWORD; PREFACE; INTRODUCTION; CHAPTER ONE Proust and Freud as taskmasters; CHAPTER TWO Love's illusions; CHAPTER THREE The fateful goodnight kiss; CHAPTER FOUR A new perspective on perversions; CHAPTER FIVE A different adolescence; CHAPTER SIX Sadomasochism according to Proust; CHAPTER SEVEN Moral and sexual masochism; CHAPTER EIGHT Eroticism and cruel party games; CHAPTER NINE Love's devious means; CHAPTER TEN What does the son want? Conclusion; REFERENCES; INDEX
330 3 $aNot all men vie with their fathers for the love of their mothers. In some families the mother becomes the central figure for her son - the father is excluded (or excludes himself) and does not come between mother and son. The main thesis of this book - using clinical vignettes and quotes from the work of Marcel Proust to illustrate the author's points - is that in these cases fantasies of matricide replace patricide. Men develop their male gender identity by being permitted to separate from their mother early on, but when a man does not resolve his infantile tie to his mother he risks remaining in a passive and/or dependent position towards her. Over-identification with the mother might ensue, hampering masculine development. Mothers who seek emotional support by binding their sons too closely can become seductive towards them. The child is inclined to try to satisfy the emotional needs of his mother, and he fears rejection if he asserts his independence instead of complying.
606   $aMothers and sons
606   $aMother and child
615  0$aMothers and sons.
615  0$aMother and child.
676   $a150.1952
700   $aHalberstadt-Freud$b Hendrika C.$f1937-$01753633
701   $aDe Jager$b Marjolijn$01670285
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