LEADER 03855nam 2200601 a 450 001 9910812788703321 005 20240516120049.0 010 $a1-280-65936-X 010 $a9786613636294 010 $a0-7657-0886-8 035 $a(CKB)2550000000084386 035 $a(EBL)860133 035 $a(OCoLC)775873188 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000612468 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11408002 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000612468 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10571483 035 $a(PQKB)10576198 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC860133 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL860133 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10532568 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL363629 035 $a(EXLCZ)992550000000084386 100 $a20111109d2012 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aOutsmarting the riptide of domestic violence $emetaphor and mindfulness for change /$fPat Pernicano 205 $a1st ed. 210 $aLanham, Md. $cJason Aronson$d2012 215 $a1 online resource (239 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a0-7657-0885-X 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aPreface -- Acknowledgments -- Introduction -- Stories for pre-contemplation -- Investing in others : relationships -- Weighing the risks and benefits of change -- Tuning in : parent-child interaction -- Repeated exposure to domestic violence -- Self-destructive behavior -- Confronting entitlement -- Stories for contemplation -- Peeling away defenses -- Safety for self and others -- The blame game -- Self-protection -- Thinking and planning in relationships -- Relationship roles -- The cycle of abuse -- Beyond sex to intimacy -- Stores for preparation -- The powerful pull of the past -- Having the right tools: survival skills -- Facing your own monsters -- Identifying and expressing feelings -- Change takes time -- Codependency -- What comes next? : planning ahead -- Recognizing danger -- Opening your heart -- Expecting the worst : fight or flight -- Stories for action -- Understanding PTSD -- Telling your story : trauma narratives -- Getting past the obstacles -- The whole is greater : becoming new and different -- Mood management -- Seeking approval : attachment disruption -- Cleaning up addictive behaviors -- Trauma reminders -- Regulating affect -- Speaking the same language -- Avoiding blind spots -- Giving birth to something remarkable -- Unconditional positive self-regard -- Stories for maintenance -- Leaving the past behind -- Preventing relapse -- Becoming whole -- Appendix a: mindfulness overview and narratives -- Appendix b: adult attachment questions -- References -- Index -- About the author. 330 $aOutsmarting the Riptide of Domestic Violence: Metaphor and Mindfulness for Change by Dr. Pat Pernicano translates issues central to domestic violence recovery into metaphorical stories and mindfulness narratives that will facilitate the change process. The stories are intended to be use in conjunction with trauma-focused interventions in order to reduce troubling symptoms, address risk and relapse-potential, change relational patterns, and remediate attachment deficits 606 $aFamily violence$xPsychological aspects 606 $aInterpersonal relations$xPsychological aspects 606 $aSelf-actualization (Psychology) 615 0$aFamily violence$xPsychological aspects. 615 0$aInterpersonal relations$xPsychological aspects. 615 0$aSelf-actualization (Psychology) 676 $a362.82/92 700 $aPernicano$b Pat$f1954-$01621069 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910812788703321 996 $aOutsmarting the riptide of domestic violence$93954187 997 $aUNINA