LEADER 04668nam 2201105Ia 450 001 9910811189903321 005 20230803025539.0 010 $a0-520-95513-7 024 7 $a10.1525/9780520955134 035 $a(CKB)2670000000339460 035 $a(EBL)1138204 035 $a(OCoLC)829905915 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000833071 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11418298 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000833071 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10935545 035 $a(PQKB)10397995 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC1138204 035 $a(DE-B1597)520080 035 $a(OCoLC)1100833813 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780520955134 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL1138204 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10665993 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL457580 035 $a(EXLCZ)992670000000339460 100 $a20120809d2013 ub 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurnn#---|u||u 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aDoing the best I can$b[electronic resource] $efatherhood in the inner city /$fKathryn Edin andTimothy J. Nelson 210 $aBerkeley $cUniversity of California Press$d2013 215 $a1 online resource (313 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 0 $a0-520-28392-9 311 0 $a0-520-27406-7 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $tFront matter --$tCONTENTS --$tACKNOWLEDGMENTS --$tIntroduction --$tONE. One Thing Leads to Another --$tTWO. Thank You, Jesus --$tTHREE. The Stupid Shit --$tFOUR. Ward Cleaver --$tFIVE. Sesame Street Mornings --$tSIX. Fight or Flight --$tSEVEN. Try, Try Again --$tEIGHT. The New Package Deal --$tAPPENDIX --$tNOTES --$tREFERENCES --$tINDEX 330 $aAcross the political spectrum, unwed fatherhood is denounced as one of the leading social problems of today. Doing the Best I Can is a strikingly rich, paradigm-shifting look at fatherhood among inner-city men often dismissed as "deadbeat dads." Kathryn Edin and Timothy J. Nelson examine how couples in challenging straits come together and get pregnant so quickly-without planning. The authors chronicle the high hopes for forging lasting family bonds that pregnancy inspires, and pinpoint the fatal flaws that often lead to the relationship's demise. They offer keen insight into a radical redefinition of family life where the father-child bond is central and parental ties are peripheral. Drawing on years of fieldwork, Doing the Best I Can shows how mammoth economic and cultural changes have transformed the meaning of fatherhood among the urban poor. Intimate interviews with more than 100 fathers make real the significant obstacles faced by low-income men at every step in the familial process: from the difficulties of romantic relationships, to decision-making dilemmas at conception, to the often celebratory moment of birth, and finally to the hardships that accompany the early years of the child's life, and beyond. 606 $aFatherhood$zUnited States 606 $aPoor children$zUnited States 606 $aSingle fathers$zUnited States 606 $aUnmarried fathers$zUnited States 610 $aanthropology. 610 $ablended families. 610 $acareer. 610 $acharacter. 610 $achildren. 610 $aclass. 610 $acultural changes. 610 $adeadbeat dads. 610 $aengaging. 610 $afamilial process. 610 $afamily. 610 $afatherhood. 610 $agender and sex. 610 $agender studies. 610 $ahuman rights. 610 $aincarceration. 610 $ainner city men. 610 $amorals. 610 $apoverty. 610 $aprison. 610 $arace and culture. 610 $arace. 610 $arelationships. 610 $aromantic relationships. 610 $asocial issues. 610 $asocial problems. 610 $asocial science. 610 $asocial work. 610 $asocioeconomic studies. 610 $asociology of urban areas. 610 $asociology. 610 $aunderstanding men and boys. 610 $aunmarried fathers. 610 $aunwed fatherhood. 610 $aurban issues. 610 $aurban poor. 610 $avirtue. 615 0$aFatherhood 615 0$aPoor children 615 0$aSingle fathers 615 0$aUnmarried fathers 676 $a362.82/940973 700 $aEdin$b Kathryn$f1962-$01041137 701 $aNelson$b Timothy Jon$01617141 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910811189903321 996 $aDoing the best I can$94115073 997 $aUNINA