LEADER 03475nam 2200625Ia 450 001 9910810270003321 005 20230721030636.0 010 $a1-281-10575-9 010 $a9786611105754 010 $a1-84642-610-3 035 $a(CKB)1000000000400863 035 $a(EBL)334144 035 $a(OCoLC)476140249 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000245969 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11186299 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000245969 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10189189 035 $a(PQKB)11062269 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC334144 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL334144 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10196777 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL110575 035 $a(EXLCZ)991000000000400863 100 $a20061108d2007 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aSilent grief $eliving in the wake of suicide /$fChristopher Lukas and Henry M. Seiden 205 $aRev. ed. 210 $aLondon ;$aPhiladelphia $cJessica Kingsley Publishers$d2007 215 $a1 online resource (222 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a1-84310-847-X 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aCover; Title Page; Contents; What Survivors Say; Preface to the Revised Edition; Part One - The Short Term: "What's Happening to Me?"; Introduction: Lukas's Story; 1 What Happens to the Survivor After Someone Commits Suicide; 2 Emotional Reactions to Suicide; 3 A Family's Story; Part Two - The Long Run: "What's Going to Happen to Me?"; 4 The Bargain: A Deal We Make with Life; 5 Bargains: The Long Good-bye; 6 Bargains: Scapegoating; 7 Bargains: "I Am Guilty; I Am a Victim"; 8 Bargains: Cutting Off; 9 Bargains: A Miscellany; 10 The Saddest Bargain: "Because You Died, I'll Die" 327 $a11 The Grand Bargain: Silence12 Reactions to an Adolescent's Suicide; Part Three - Giving Help and Getting Help: Listening and Talking; 13 Responding; 14 Giving Help by Listening; 15 Getting Help by Talking; 16 Talking with Children; 17 Living with Suicide: Some Stories About Responding; Epilogue-Lukas's Story: A Personal Summary; Notes; Appendix: Where to Find Self-Help Groups; Bibliography and Further Reading; Index; 330 $aSilent Grief is a book for and about “suicide survivors” – those who have been left behind by the suicide of a friend or loved one. Author Christopher Lukas is a suicide survivor himself – several members of his family have taken their own lives – and the book draws on his own experiences, as well as those of numerous other suicide survivors. These personal testimonies are combined with the professional expertise of Henry M. Seiden, a psychologist and psychoanalytic psychotherapist. The authors present information on common experiences of bereavement, grief reacti 606 $aSuicide$zUnited States 606 $aBereavement$zUnited States$xPsychological aspects 606 $aSuicide victims$xFamily relationships$zUnited States 615 0$aSuicide 615 0$aBereavement$xPsychological aspects. 615 0$aSuicide victims$xFamily relationships 676 $a362.28/30973 700 $aLukas$b Christopher$01628351 701 $aSeiden$b Henry M.$f1940-$01628352 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910810270003321 996 $aSilent grief$93965460 997 $aUNINA