LEADER 04898nam 2200625 450 001 9910788082903321 005 20230807204515.0 010 $a0-19-937075-3 010 $a0-19-937074-5 035 $a(CKB)2670000000577722 035 $a(EBL)1865700 035 $a(SSID)ssj0001381696 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11719010 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0001381696 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)11393891 035 $a(PQKB)10817045 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL1865700 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10989901 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL664471 035 $a(OCoLC)897070257 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC1865700 035 $a(EXLCZ)992670000000577722 100 $a20140924h20152015 uy| 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aOn romantic love $esimple truths about a complex emotion /$fBerit Brogaard 210 1$aNew York, New York :$cOxford University Press,$d[2015] 210 4$dİ2015 215 $a1 online resource (289 p.) 225 1 $aPhilosophy in action 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a0-19-937073-7 311 $a1-322-33189-8 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aCover; ON ROMANTIC LOVE: Simple Truths about a Complex Emotion; Copyright; CONTENTS; PREFACE; ACKNOWLEDGMENTS; 1. DANGEROUS LIAISONS: LETTER FROM A FRIEND; 2. GRAVITATION IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR PEOPLE FALLING IN LOVE: THE CHEMISTRY OF LOVE; Your Brain on Crack; Beliefs and Brain Chemistry; Taking the Drug Away; Addicted to Grief; Emotional Pain; Stress, Pimples, and Gray Hair; Love and Hate; 3. I HAVE FEELINGS TOO: THE PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE; Love as an Emotion; Basic and Complex Emotions; Is Love a Bodily Sensation?; Uniting Body and World; Strange Connections; Emotional Responses to Fiction 327 $aPerceived Responses4. HOPELESSLY DEVOTED TO YOU: IRRATIONAL LOVE; Does the Idea of Irrational Love Make Sense?; You Call It Madness, I Call It Love; Irrational Compassionate Love; The Transcendent View of Love; Love as a History; Personal Identity and the Value of Our Beloveds; Is Love Unconditional?; 5. WHY WAS I HOLDING ONTO SOMETHING THAT WOULD NEVER BE MINE?: RELATIONSHIPS AND LOV EATTACHMENT; Secure versus Insecure Attachment; Childish Relationships; Avoidant Attachment; Anxious Attachment; Familiar Love; Jealousy and Anxious Attachment; Avoidance and Love as a History 327 $aCan Attachment Styles Change?Attachment Love; Can Animals Love?; 6. SOMETIMES THE HEART SEES WHAT IS INVISIBLE TO THE EYE: UNCONSCIOUS LOVE; Opponents of Unconscious Affection; Unconscious Affect; Two Emotional Pathways; Unconscious Love; In Your Dreams; Is Love a Disposition?; 7. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU: AND OTHER IN-BETWEEN CASES OF LOVE; Prototypes; "Love" Is Gradable; He's Just Not That into You; Love and Ambivalence; 8. I'D DO ANYTHING FOR LOVE (BUTI WON'T DO THAT): LOVE AND SEX; Non-Monogamous Love as In-Between Cases; Love and Casual Sex; The Other Dimension of Sex 327 $a9. UN-BREAK MY HEART: HOW TO FALL OUT OF LOVENever Mind Searching for Who You Are. Search for the Person You Aspire to Be; Psychoanalysis and Talk Therapy; Emotional Regulation and Avoidance Behavior; The Repetition Technique; Prolonged Exposure Therapy; Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing; Deep Relaxation and Meditation; Heartbreak and Placement Conditioning; The Sinclair Method; Out, Damned Spot: Using Soap to Wash Away Your Negative Feelings; 10. HAPPINESS IS LOVE. FULL STOP: LOVE , MARRIAGE , AND THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS; Emotional Regulation as a Route to Happiness 327 $aNegative Thinking as a Path to Happiness?Marriage and Happiness; Love and Happiness; SOMETIMES THE HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS: THE END; NOTES; Chapter 1; Chapter 2; Chapter 3; Chapter 4; Chapter 5; Chapter 6; Chapter 7; Chapter 8; Chapter 9; Chapter 10; Conclusion; BIBLIOGRAPHY; INDEX 330 $aRomantic love presents some of life's most challenging questions. Can we choose who to love? Is romantic love rational? Can we love more than one person at a time? And can we make ourselves fall out of love? In On Romantic Love, Berit Brogaard attempts to get to the bottom of love's many contradictions. This short book, informed by both historical and cutting edge philosophy, psychology, and neuroscience, combines a new theory of romantic love with entertaining anecdotes from real life and accessible explanations of the neuroscience underlying our wildest passions. Against the grain, Brogaard 410 0$aPhilosophy in action. 606 $aLove 615 0$aLove. 676 $a128/.46 700 $aBrogaard$b Berit$01535169 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910788082903321 996 $aOn romantic love$93783161 997 $aUNINA