LEADER 04654nam 2201093 a 450 001 9910786706403321 005 20230725035445.0 010 $a1-283-27807-3 010 $a0-520-94941-2 010 $a9786613278074 024 7 $a10.1525/9780520949416 035 $a(CKB)2670000000355344 035 $a(EBL)669814 035 $a(OCoLC)707068971 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000471965 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11315079 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000471965 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10429621 035 $a(PQKB)10805228 035 $a(StDuBDS)EDZ0000083823 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC669814 035 $a(MdBmJHUP)muse31048 035 $a(DE-B1597)519046 035 $a(OCoLC)712769167 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780520949416 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL669814 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10455031 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL327807 035 $a(EXLCZ)992670000000355344 100 $a20100923d2011 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcn||||||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aParting ways$b[electronic resource] $enew rituals and celebrations of life's passing /$fDenise Carson 210 $aBerkeley, Calif ;$aLos Angeles, Calif. $cUniversity of California Press$d2011 215 $a1 online resource (329 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a0-520-25108-3 311 $a0-520-26873-3 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references. 327 $aHer choice: two paths leading to the same destination -- Living funeral: celebrating the end of life -- Her life review: reliving the past in the present -- Legacy of memories: telling life stories and last wishes -- Her season of lasts: traditional, seasonal, communal rituals -- Oral ethical will: video recording last words -- Her living wake: reminiscing and farewell party -- Vigil: holding hands at the 11th hour -- Her 21st century memorial service, his 20th century funeral -- Home funeral: eco-friendly way out -- Holistic approach: design-it-yourself funeral and cremation witnessing -- The living unveiling: technology innovates memorializing -- Her truth: finding life after death. 327 $apt. 1. End-of-life celebrations and pre-death rituals -- pt. 2. Post-death and memorializing rituals. 330 $aParting Ways explores the emergence of new end-of-life rituals in America that celebrate the dying and reinvent the roles of family and community at the deathbed. Denise Carson contrasts her father's passing in the 1980's, governed by the structures of institutionalized death, with her mother's death some two decades later. Carson's moving account of her mother's dying at home vividly portrays a ceremonial farewell known as a living wake, showing how it closed the gap between social and biological death while opening the door for family and friends to reminisce with her mother. Carson also investigates a variety of solutions--living funerals, oral ethical wills, and home funerals--that revise the impending death scenario. Integrating the profoundly personal with the objectively historical, Parting Ways calls for an "end of life revolution" to change the way of death in America. 606 $aDeath$xPsychological aspects 606 $aMourning customs 606 $aFuneral rites and ceremonies 610 $aanthropology. 610 $abiological death. 610 $aburial. 610 $acancer. 610 $acelebration. 610 $acemetery. 610 $aceremonial farewell. 610 $acremation. 610 $adeath. 610 $adisease. 610 $adoctor. 610 $adying. 610 $aend of life. 610 $afacing death. 610 $agrief. 610 $ahome funerals. 610 $ahospice. 610 $aimpending death. 610 $ainstitutionalized death. 610 $aliving funerals. 610 $aliving wake. 610 $aloss of parents. 610 $aloss. 610 $amortality. 610 $anonfiction. 610 $aoral ethical wills. 610 $apain. 610 $areligion. 610 $arite. 610 $aritual. 610 $asocial death. 610 $asocial science. 610 $aspirituality. 610 $atradition. 615 0$aDeath$xPsychological aspects. 615 0$aMourning customs. 615 0$aFuneral rites and ceremonies. 676 $a155.9/37 700 $aCarson$b Denise$01560598 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910786706403321 996 $aParting ways$93826703 997 $aUNINA