LEADER 05385nam 2200661 450 001 9910786700903321 005 20230803203002.0 010 $a1-118-28241-8 010 $a1-118-28694-4 035 $a(CKB)3710000000125548 035 $a(EBL)1694924 035 $a(SSID)ssj0001227785 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11700086 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0001227785 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)11280301 035 $a(PQKB)11656924 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC1694924 035 $a(DLC) 2014000679 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL1694924 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10882749 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL620770 035 $a(OCoLC)867852782 035 $a(EXLCZ)993710000000125548 100 $a20140626h20142014 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aOn being a master therapist $epracticing what you preach /$fJeffrey A. Kottler and Jon Carlson ; cover design, C. Wallace 210 1$aHoboken, New Jersey :$cWiley,$d2014. 210 4$dİ2014 215 $a1 online resource (305 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a1-118-22581-3 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aOn Being a Master Therapist; Contents; Preface; Introduction: Two Variations on a Theme; Chapter 1 What Is a Master Therapist Anyway-And How Do You Get to Be One?; What Is a Master Therapist?; Different Standards of Mastery; Client and Therapist Perceptions of Outcomes; Definitions of Mastery by Experts on the Subject; Chapter 2 What We (Think We) Know So Far; A Movement Toward Consensus; What Does Make a Difference?; What Clients Bring to the Table; Personal Attributes of the Therapist; The Importance of Knowing Stuff; It's the Relationship; Wondering What Things Mean; Talking to the Masters 327 $aWhat Famous Therapists Appear to Have in CommonChapter 3 Deep Compassion and Caring; Creating Connections; Commitment and Investment; The Growth Edge; Chapter 4 Sophisticated Interpersonal Skills: Really, Really Listening; "How'd You Do That?"; Little Things Make a Huge Difference; Listening Differently; Being in the Moment; Chapter 5 Being Fully Present While Focusing on the Other; Altered States of Being; Mind Chatter; A Way of Being; Staying Present With Ourselves; Chapter 6 Knowing What Maybe/Probably/Mostly Makes a Difference; What Makes a Difference?; Hitting Bottom 327 $aConfront Pain and SufferingCreating Hope and Optimism; Creating a Safe Relationship; Developing Compassion and Caring; Honoring Secrets; Reframing or Restorying the Problem; Challenging Beliefs and Assumptions; Growth (Versus Deficit) Orientation; Rehearsal and Task Facilitation; Group and Family Support; Constructive Feedback; Preparation for Setbacks and Relapses; Flexibility to Reduce Stress and Demands; Make It Meaningful; Passion and Enthusiasm; Beyond Understanding: Honoring Magic and Mystery; Chapter 7 Speaking the Truth; Lies in Therapy; Confronting Deception; Hard Truths 327 $aTaking Risks and Exploring the UnknownChapter 8 Making Mistakes-But Not the Same Ones Over and Over; Making Mistakes Isn't the Problem; Practicing Self-Compassion; Most Common Mistakes; Understanding Trumps Truth; Relieving (Our Own?) Suffering and Helplessness; Illusions of Perfection; Hypocrisy and Complacency; Mistakes or Just Data to Process?; Chapter 9 Inviting and Responding to Constructive Feedback; Sources of Feedback; Clients Are the Best Teachers; Feedback That's Most Helpful; Processing Feedback Gratefully; Being Accountable to Ourselves, Our Colleagues, and Our Clients 327 $aLife-Changing FeedbackRecruiting Master Coaches and Mentors; How We Know What We Know; Chapter 10 Who You Are Is as Important as What You Do; Who We Are Versus What We Do; Qualities of Master Therapists; Practicing Self-Compassion; Modeling As Best We Can; Chapter 11 Acknowledging Commonalities, Responding to Differences; Multiple Cultural Identities; An Individual's Multiplicity of Cultures; What We Share in Common; Metabolizing Theory and Embracing Complexity; Chapter 12 Love Is a Four-Letter Word in Therapy; Multiple Dimensions of Caring; Owning Our Personal Motives; Learning How to Love 327 $aLove Is Always Possible 330 $aLearn from master therapists and bring your skills to the next level Bringing a breath of fresh air to the therapy profession, this compelling and thoughtful resource urges readers to move from competency to full mastery in the mental health field. Combining the findings of hundreds of previous studies, interviews with a wide range of master therapists, own unique experiences and perspectives, Jeffery A. Kottler and Jon Carlson have devised a guide that takes therapists out of their comfort zones. Professionals in the fields of psychology, counseling, social work, and human services 606 $aPsychotherapists 606 $aPsychotherapy$xPractice 615 0$aPsychotherapists. 615 0$aPsychotherapy$xPractice. 676 $a616.89/14 700 $aKottler$b Jeffrey A.$0851077 702 $aCarlson$b Jon 702 $aWallace$b C. 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910786700903321 996 $aOn being a master therapist$93826651 997 $aUNINA