LEADER 03658nam 2200625Ia 450 001 9910784166403321 005 20230828214335.0 010 $a1-280-56661-2 010 $a9786610627813 010 $a1-84642-482-8 035 $a(CKB)1000000000338115 035 $a(EBL)290897 035 $a(OCoLC)228171136 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000210286 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11207353 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000210286 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10268143 035 $a(PQKB)10010361 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC290897 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL290897 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10141175 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL56661 035 $a(EXLCZ)991000000000338115 100 $a20051201d2006 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aNew families, old scripts$b[electronic resource] $ea guide to the language of trauma and attachment in adoptive families /$fCaroline Archer and Christine Gordon ; foreword by Alan Burnell 210 $aLondon ;$aPhiladelphia $cJessica Kinglsey Publishers$d2006 215 $a1 online resource (253 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a1-84310-258-7 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 241-246) and index. 327 $aNew Families, Old Scripts:A Guide to the Language of Traumaand Attachment in Adoptive Families; Contents; FOREWORD; AN INTRODUCTION TO THE LANGUAGE OF TRAUMA AND PARENT MENTORING; INTRODUCING THE FAMILIES; Alphabet of Issues; Accent on change: Jemima Crackit and the new family script; Aggressive and angry behaviour; Attentionseeking/attention needing; Basicbuilding blocks of the brain; Bedtimeand sleep; Controlissues; Cracking the code:Jemima Crackit and Panicchiodevelop a shared language; Cradlingfor closeness and comfort; Criticalconnections; Dealingwith danger; Dissociativeconnections 327 $aDissociativestatesEatingand food issues; Emotionaloutbursts; Fis for feelings, not just 'fight,flight and freeze'; F1 kids:Fast forward; Gamesto encourage attachment; 'Good'child(or am I being 'good enough'?); Impacton adoptive parentsof living with violentand threatening behaviour; Lookingafter ourselves; Managingseparations; No:When parents say 'no'; Nutrition; Puttingit all behind usThose 'need to know' questions(Why, How, Who, What?); Puzzlingpain responses; Reassuranceor validation?; Rivalrybetween siblings; Rudenessand swearing; Self-regulation(managingarousal); Sensoryissues 327 $aSexualisedbehaviourTaking,borrowing, stealing?; Terribleshame; Thinktoddler think (T3); Whatnot to do!; Your way forward:Final reflections; REFERENCES, RECOMMENDED READING AND RESOURCES; INDEX 330 $aMost adopted children and their families will, sooner or later, encounter the challenges of dealing with unresolved attachment issues or early traumatic experiences. This book is an accessible introduction to understanding these challenges and helping children and their families to develop a shared language and understanding of one another. 606 $aAdoptive parents$vHandbooks, manuals, etc 606 $aParenting$vHandbooks, manuals, etc 606 $aProblem children$vHandbooks, manuals, etc 615 0$aAdoptive parents 615 0$aParenting 615 0$aProblem children 676 $a649/.145 700 $aArcher$b Caroline$f1948-$01499005 701 $aGordon$b Christine$0801796 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910784166403321 996 $aNew families, old scripts$93818646 997 $aUNINA