LEADER 04087nam 22006734a 450 001 9910777402003321 005 20200520144314.0 010 $a1-281-73452-7 010 $a9786611734527 010 $a0-300-13468-1 024 7 $a10.12987/9780300134681 035 $a(CKB)1000000000473634 035 $a(StDuBDS)BDZ0022171499 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000169134 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11171078 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000169134 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10203995 035 $a(PQKB)10833758 035 $a(StDuBDS)EDZ0000165676 035 $a(DE-B1597)484871 035 $a(OCoLC)1024005477 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780300134681 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL3420380 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10210263 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL173452 035 $a(OCoLC)923592616 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3420380 035 $a(EXLCZ)991000000000473634 100 $a20060525d2006 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur||||||||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aHaunted by parents$b[electronic resource] /$fLeonard Shengold 210 $aNew Haven $cYale University Press$dc2006 215 $a1 online resource (1 online resource (xi, 257 p.)) 300 $aBibliographic Level Mode of Issuance: Monograph 311 $a0-300-11610-1 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. [243]-248) and index. 327 $aA literary example of haunting : Dr. Benjamin Spock -- A clinical illustration of some of my main themes -- Knowing, change, and good and bad expectations -- Beginnings and Wordsworth's "immortality ode" -- Change means loss : spring and summer must become winter -- The myth of Demeter and Persephone -- Another dream of death in a garden -- A clinical and a literary example : Edna St. Vincent Millay -- A second literary example : Leonard Woolf -- A third literary example : Sergei Timofeevich Aksakov -- On listening, knowing, and owning -- Gardens, unweeded gardens, and the garden of Eden : death and transience -- "The promise" and Ibsen's A doll's house and Hedda Gabler -- What do I know? 330 $aIn this book the eminent psychoanalyst Leonard Shengold looks at why some people are resistant to change, even when it seems to promise a change for the better. Drawing on a lifetime of clinical experience as well as wide readings of world literature, Shengold shows how early childhood relationships with parents can lead to a powerful conviction that change means loss. Dr. Shengold, who is well known for his work on the lasting effects of childhood trauma and child abuse in such seminal books as Soul Murder and Soul Murder Revisited, continues his exploration into the consequences of early psychological injury and loss. In the examples of his patients and in the lives and work of such figures as Edna St. Vincent Millay, William Wordsworth, and Henrik Ibsen, Shengold looks at the different ways in which unconscious impressions connected with early experiences and fantasies about parents are integrated into individual lives. He shows the difficulties he's encountered with his patients in raising these memories to the conscious level where they can be known and owned; and he also shows, in his survey of literary figures, how these memories can become part of the creative process. Haunted by Parents offers a deeply humane reflection on the values and limitations of therapy, on memory and the lingering effects of the past, and on the possibility of recognizing the promise of the future. 606 $aAttitude change 606 $aClient-centered psychotherapy 606 $aMotivation (Psychology) 606 $aPsychotherapy$vMiscellanea 615 0$aAttitude change. 615 0$aClient-centered psychotherapy. 615 0$aMotivation (Psychology) 615 0$aPsychotherapy 676 $a616.89/14 700 $aShengold$b Leonard$0163041 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910777402003321 996 $aHaunted by parents$93763773 997 $aUNINA