LEADER 03260nam 2200541 450 001 9910727268803321 005 20230620202716.0 010 $a0-226-70100-X 024 7 $a10.7208/9780226701004 035 $a(CKB)4100000011343831 035 $a(DE-B1597)549570 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780226701004 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC6265561 035 $a(OCoLC)1163878902 035 $a(EXLCZ)994100000011343831 100 $a20201118d2020 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur||#|||||||| 181 $ctxt$2rdacontent 182 $cc$2rdamedia 183 $acr$2rdacarrier 200 10$aIntimate disconnections $edivorce and the romance of independence in contemporary Japan /$fAllison Alexy 210 1$aChicago, Illinois :$cUniversity of Chicago Press,$d2020. 215 $a1 online resource (248 p.) $c6 halftones, 2 tables 311 $a0-226-69965-X 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aIntroduction: Freedom and Anxiety -- The Beginning of the End -- Japan's Intimate Political Economy --Tips to Avoid Divorce -- Legal Dissolutions -- Constructing Mutuality --Families Together and Apart -- Living as an X --The Costs of Divorce -- Bonds of Disconnection -- Conclusion: Endings and New Beginnings. 330 $a"For centuries, women have been expected to endure bad marriages. When divorce did happen, it was most often on the husband's initiative. Now, not only in the West but around the world, people who never thought seriously about divorce are fantasizing about it. Others are newly anxious that their spouses might leave them. Intimate Disconnections tells the fascinating story of what happens when a society that conceives of itself as being grounded in heterosexual marriages comes under sudden stress. Japan is one such society in profound transition-these days one of three marriages will end in divorce, a stunning rise from just a few decades ago. As men and women consider divorce, or work to avoid it, they face questions about the risks and possibilities intimate relationships bring: How can people be intimate without becoming suffocatingly close? How should couples build meaningful, loving, or supportive relationships when older models for behavior no longer feel feasible? What styles of intimacy most benefit society? What do you do, legally and socially, when you just can't take it anymore? Relating the intensely private stories from people experiencing different stages of divorce, this book provides a rich ethnography of Japan that also speaks more broadly to contemporary visions of love and marriage as neoliberal values are prompting wide-ranging transformations in bedrooms across the globe"--$cProvided by publisher. 606 $aMarriage$zJapan 606 $aDivorce$zJapan 610 $aJapan. 610 $adependence. 610 $adivorce. 610 $agender. 610 $aintimacy. 610 $aneoliberalism. 610 $aromance. 615 0$aMarriage 615 0$aDivorce 676 $a306.89 700 $aAlexy$b Allison$01146164 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910727268803321 996 $aIntimate disconnections$93382057 997 $aUNINA