LEADER 03235nam 2200409 450 001 9910492150903321 005 20230629215552.0 010 $a3-030-77403-1 035 $a(CKB)4100000011979176 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC6676319 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL6676319 035 $a(OCoLC)1260347844 035 $a(EXLCZ)994100000011979176 100 $a20220329d2021 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcnu|||||||| 181 $ctxt$2rdacontent 182 $cc$2rdamedia 183 $acr$2rdacarrier 200 10$aCouples' transitions to parenthood $egender, intimacy and equality /$fCharlotte Faircloth 210 1$aCham, Switzerland :$cPalgrave Macmillan,$d[2021] 210 4$d©2021 215 $a1 online resource (164 pages) 311 $a3-030-77402-3 327 $aIntro -- Preface -- Acknowledgements -- Contents -- About the Author -- List of Figures -- Chapter 1: Introduction -- Relationships End, But Children Are 'Forever' -- Overview -- Vignette 1: Anthony and Claudia -- References -- Part I: Context -- Introduction to Part I -- References -- Chapter 2: Theoretical Context -- Couple Relationships and Ideals of Equality -- Contemporary Parenting Culture -- Motherhood and Moralisation -- Different Performances of the Cultural Script -- Gender -- Class -- Cultural Variation -- Children at Risk -- The Many Methods of Raising Children Intensively -- Parenting, Gender and the State -- So What Does Equality Mean in Practice? -- Parenting Between Ideal and Reality -- References -- Chapter 3: Political and Methodological Context -- Political Context -- Methodology -- Introducing the Couples -- Vignette 2: Laura and James -- References -- References -- Part II: Practice -- Birth, Eating and Sleeping -- References -- Chapter 4: Birth -- Birth as an Analytical Object -- Great Expectations -- ...Shattered -- Birth Stories, Identity Work and Relationships -- Conclusion -- References -- Chapter 5: Feeding -- Infant Feeding and Moralisation -- Physicality and Embodiment of Intensive Parenting -- Material Barriers to 'Equal' Parenting -- Rethinking Gender Roles: Gay Couples and Parenting Culture -- Breastfeeding, Relationship Deadlock and the Impossibility of 'Support' -- References -- Chapter 6: Sleeping -- Thinking About Sleep -- The Sleep Diaries -- Taking Turns -- Intimacy and Sex -- Intimacy and Inequality: Embodying Difference -- Mutual Understanding -- Less Equality, Less Intimacy? -- Equality, Individualism and Intimacy -- Conclusions -- Vignette 3: Ellen and Max -- References -- Chapter 7: Conclusion -- Equality and Intimacy: Uncomfortable Bedfellows? -- Iterations of Equality -- Equality as Sharing the Worry?. 327 $aThe Quality of Quality Time -- Family Life and a Relational Perspective -- Equality and Individualism -- Conclusion: Escaping the 'Parent Trap'? -- References -- Author Index -- Subject Index. 606 $aParenting 615 0$aParenting. 676 $a649.1 700 $aFaircloth$b Charlotte$0851322 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910492150903321 996 $aCouples' Transitions to Parenthood$92106114 997 $aUNINA