LEADER 03659nam 2200709 a 450 001 9910456876303321 005 20211101172002.0 010 $a0-8014-6150-2 010 $a0-8014-6102-2 024 7 $a10.7591/9780801461026 035 $a(CKB)2550000000035251 035 $a(OCoLC)728082251 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebrary10468058 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000538754 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11324530 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000538754 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10560327 035 $a(PQKB)10610399 035 $a(StDuBDS)EDZ0001495999 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3138179 035 $a(OCoLC)865509048 035 $a(MdBmJHUP)muse28967 035 $a(DE-B1597)478484 035 $a(OCoLC)979723453 035 $a(DE-B1597)9780801461026 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL3138179 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10468058 035 $a(CaONFJC)MIL768214 035 $a(EXLCZ)992550000000035251 100 $a20101016d2011 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur||||||||||| 181 $ctxt$2rdacontent 182 $cc$2rdamedia 183 $acr$2rdacarrier 200 10$aLovesick Japan$b[electronic resource] $esex, marriage, romance, law /$fMark D. West 210 $aIthaca $cCornell University Press$d2011 215 $a1 online resource (271 p.)$cillustrations 300 $aBibliographic Level Mode of Issuance: Monograph 311 $a0-8014-4947-2 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 327 $aJudging -- Love -- Coupling -- Private sex -- Commodified sex -- Divorce. 330 $aIn Lovesick Japan, Mark D. West explores an official vision of love, sex, and marriage in contemporary Japan. A comprehensive body of evidence-2,700 court opinions-describes a society characterized by a presupposed absence of physical and emotional intimacy, affection, and personal connections. In compelling, poignant, and sometimes horrifying court cases, West finds that Japanese judges frequently opine on whether a person is in love, what other emotions a person is feeling, and whether those emotions are appropriate for the situation.Sometimes judges' views about love, sex, and marriage emerge from their presentation of the facts of cases. Among the recurring elements are abortions forced by men, compensated dating, late-life divorces, termination fees to end affairs, sexless couples, Valentine's Day heartbreak, "soapland" bath-brothels, and home-wrecking hostesses.Sometimes the judges' analysis, decisions, and commentary are as revealing as the facts. Sex in the cases is a choice among private "normal" sex, which is male-dominated, conservative, dispassionate, or nonexistent; commercial sex, which caters to every fetish but is said to lead to rape, murder, and general social depravity; and a hybrid of the two, which commodifies private sexual relationships. Marriage is contractual; judges express the ideal of love in marriage and proclaim its importance, but virtually no one in the court cases achieves it. Love usually appears as a tragic, overwhelming emotion associated with jealousy, suffering, heartache, and death. 606 $aSex customs$zJapan 606 $aLove$zJapan 606 $aMarriage$zJapan 606 $aDivorce$zJapan 607 $aJapan$xSocial life and customs 608 $aElectronic books. 615 0$aSex customs 615 0$aLove 615 0$aMarriage 615 0$aDivorce 676 $a306.810952 700 $aWest$b Mark D$0887054 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910456876303321 996 $aLovesick Japan$92470282 997 $aUNINA