LEADER 03876nam 2200589 a 450 001 9910455208203321 005 20200520144314.0 010 $a1-4175-2067-1 035 $a(CKB)111035898506278 035 $a(EBL)3116901 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000197046 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11179060 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000197046 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10154112 035 $a(PQKB)10426328 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3116901 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL3116901 035 $a(CaPaEBR)ebr10057984 035 $a(OCoLC)922966899 035 $a(EXLCZ)99111035898506278 100 $a19940808d1995 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aManaging negative people$b[electronic resource] $estrategies for success /$fS. Michael Kravitz 210 $aMenlo Park, Calif. $cCrisp Publications$dc1995 215 $a1 online resource (86 p.) 225 1 $aA fifty-minute series book 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a1-56052-306-9 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 72). 327 $a""OTHER CAUSES OF NEGATIVE, DIFFICULT PEOPLE""""VALUES-DRIVEN MOTIVATION""; ""SELF-ESTEEM""; ""ATTITUDES""; ""Self-Esteem and Attitudes""; ""Self-Esteem and Attitude Assessment""; ""Assessment Interpretation""; ""NORMS""; ""Summary""; ""SECTION II Dealing with Negativity""; ""DEALING WITH OTHERSa??? NEGATIVITY""; ""SKILL #1: Avoid Personalizing""; ""SKILL #2: Use a???Ia??? Messages""; ""SKILL #3: Deal with Their Anger""; ""Breathe Slowly and Regularly""; ""Speak in a Calm Manner""; ""USE THE UAR PROCESS""; ""Deal with Their Anger""; ""Remove Yourself from Irrational People"" 327 $a""SKILL #4: Confornt Negative Conflict""""SKILL #5 Turn Things Around""; ""Using Opposite Statements""; ""Asking What Can Be Done""; ""WHEN YOU ARE THE NEGATIVE PERSON""; ""SECTION III Understanding Negatorsa??? Styles""; ""NEGATOR STYLES""; ""Identifying Negator Styles""; ""NEGATOR STYLE QUIZ""; ""Interpretation""; ""The Most Difficult Negator Styles""; ""Personal Style and Ability to Deal with Negators""; ""MATCHING COMMUNICATION STRATEGIES""; ""SECTION IV Overcoming Negativity Using the BEEP System""; ""TURNING UNDERSTANDING INTO ACTION""; ""BE BOLD AND ASSERTIVE WITH NEGATORS"" 327 $a""EXPRESS THE PROBLEM AND SOLUTION CLEARLY""""STEP 1: Describe Behaviors and Determine Causes""; ""Evaluate the Causes""; ""STEP 2: Develop Solutions and Prepare a Script""; ""PREPARE A SCRIPT IN ADVANCE""; ""Preparing a Script""; ""EXPECT TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS""; ""Goal Achievement Assessment""; ""Scoring and Interpretation""; ""PRACTICE POSITIVE THINKING""; ""The AM/FM Approach""; ""An Everyday Example""; ""Tune in to Your Own a???Positivitya???""; ""Personal Worksheet for Positive Thinking: AM/FM Process""; ""Practice Makes It Perfect""; ""SECTION V Developing Your Action Plan"" 327 $a""BUILD YOUR POSITIVITY MUSCLES""""Positivity Building Survey""; ""Scoring and Interpretation""; ""Practice the Diamond Rule""; ""Personal Needs Survey""; ""Increase Relaxation""; ""Scheduling""; ""Experiencing Pleasant Events""; ""Natural Ways to Feel Good""; ""Taking Care of Your Body Through Diet and Sleep""; ""APPLY YOUR KNOWLEDGE""; ""REFERENCES""; ""Organizations:""; ""Publications:""; ""Assessment Instruments:"" 410 0$aFifty-Minute series. 606 $aNegativism 606 $aPersonality and motivation 608 $aElectronic books. 615 0$aNegativism. 615 0$aPersonality and motivation. 676 $a658.3/045 700 $aKravitz$b S. Michael$0900061 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910455208203321 996 $aManaging negative people$92010929 997 $aUNINA