LEADER 03854nam 22005415 450 001 9910438244803321 005 20200919234338.0 010 $a3-642-39985-1 024 7 $a10.1007/978-3-642-39985-5 035 $a(CKB)3710000000074960 035 $a(EBL)1592808 035 $a(SSID)ssj0001091500 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)11993014 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0001091500 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)11026907 035 $a(PQKB)11710780 035 $a(DE-He213)978-3-642-39985-5 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC1592808 035 $a(PPN)176114041 035 $a(EXLCZ)993710000000074960 100 $a20131203d2013 u| 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aur|n|---||||| 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aOnline Dating as A Strategic Game $eWhy and How Men in Hong Kong Use QQ to Chase Women in Mainland China /$fby Maurice Kwok-to Choi, Kwok-bun Chan 205 $a1st ed. 2013. 210 1$aBerlin, Heidelberg :$cSpringer Berlin Heidelberg :$cImprint: Springer,$d2013. 215 $a1 online resource (177 p.) 300 $aDescription based upon print version of record. 311 $a3-642-39984-3 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references. 327 $aList of Tables -- List of Figures -- Chapter 1 : Introduction -- Chapter 2 : Exchange, Emotions, Intimacy, Masculinities, Love, Money and Cyberlove -- Chapter 3 : Methodology and Internet Research Methods -- Chapter 4 : Invitation to the QQ World -- Chapter 5 : The Beginning of the Chasing Game -- Chapter 6 : The Dramatic Moment of the Chasing Game: When a Man Meets a Woman -- Chapter 7 : The Feelings of the Men: Looking into an Inner World -- Chapter 8 : Conclusion -- Appendix -- References. 330 $aBased on a study using online ethnography as the major research method, this book explains why and how men in Hong Kong use QQ?an online instant messenger?to ?chase? women in mainland China, especially in the neighboring city of Shenzhen. Chasing women through QQ is a reciprocal exchange process during which the resources to be exchanged in the interaction are not negotiated. Rather, the men provide resources to the women, hoping for rewards in return that are not guaranteed. This characteristic of the exchange makes men who chase women through QQ very strategic in their action. They try to maximize the rewards and minimize the costs by adopting myriad strategies, such as constructing an attractive online identity by strategic self-presentation. The role of emotions in the exchange process is also examined. Men learn the emotional norms through the online forum, but sometimes it is difficult for them to control their emotions; some men fall in love when they are not supposed to. As it happens, they have failed to calculate the costs and rewards rationally in that they may provide too many resources to the women without getting enough rewards in return. This book provides original insights into the thought processes, motivations, desires, anxieties and risks of Hong Kong men seeking short-term sexual relations with women on the mainland. These insights are highly relevant to our understanding of the quickly evolving use of social media, a phenomenon of worldwide importance and deep implications. 606 $aCommunication 606 $aSociology 606 $aMedia Research$3https://scigraph.springernature.com/ontologies/product-market-codes/X29000 615 0$aCommunication. 615 0$aSociology. 615 14$aMedia Research. 676 $a306.702854678 700 $aChoi$b Maurice Kwok-to$4aut$4http://id.loc.gov/vocabulary/relators/aut$01059126 702 $aChan$b Kwok-bun$4aut$4http://id.loc.gov/vocabulary/relators/aut 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910438244803321 996 $aOnline Dating as A Strategic Game$92504229 997 $aUNINA