LEADER 02173nam 2200469 450 001 9910154686503321 005 20230808200758.0 010 $a0-7611-8900-9 035 $a(CKB)3710000000971793 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC4439241 035 $a(EXLCZ)993710000000971793 100 $a20170601h20162016 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcnu|||||||| 181 $2rdacontent 182 $2rdamedia 183 $2rdacarrier 200 10$aParentspeak $ewhat's wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say instead /$fJennifer Lehr 210 1$aNew York :$cWorkman Publishing,$d2016. 210 4$dİ2016 215 $a1 online resource (276 pages) 311 $a0-7611-8151-2 327 $a"Good job!" -- "Who's a big boy?" -- "You're so cute!" -- "Give grandma a kiss!" -- "Be careful!" -- "Can you say thank you?" -- "Share!" -- "Say sorry!"-- "Here comes the tickle monster!" -- "You're okay!" -- "Behave yourself!" -- "I said, right now!" -- "Do you want a time out?" -- "Do you want a spanking?". 330 $a"Imagine if every time you praise your child with "Good job!" you're actually doing more harm than good, offering meaningless approval instead of actually engaging with your child? Or that insisting "Can you say thank you?" is exactly the wrong way to go about teaching manners? Jennifer Lehr is a smart, funny, fearless writer who takes on "parentspeak" and, in the process, offers a conscious, compassionate approach to parenting"--$cProvided by publisher. 517 3 $aParent speak :$ewhat's wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say instead 606 $aSuccess in children 606 $aChildren$xConduct of life 606 $aInterpersonal communication in children 606 $aChild rearing 615 0$aSuccess in children. 615 0$aChildren$xConduct of life. 615 0$aInterpersonal communication in children. 615 0$aChild rearing. 676 $a649.7 700 $aLehr$b Jennifer$f1969-$01249753 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910154686503321 996 $aParentspeak$92896007 997 $aUNINA