LEADER 04978nam 22005653 450 001 9910149455303321 005 20241107101549.0 010 $a1-101-90535-2 035 $a(CKB)3710000000933205 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC6108069 035 $a(Au-PeEL)EBL6108069 035 $a(OCoLC)962855144 035 $a(ODN)ODN0002716101 035 $a(EXLCZ)993710000000933205 100 $a20210901d2016 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcnu|||||||| 181 $ctxt$2rdacontent 182 $cc$2rdamedia 183 $acr$2rdacarrier 200 10$aPositive Discipline Parenting Tools $eThe 49 Most Effective Methods to Stop Power Struggles, Build Communication, and Raise Empowered, Capable Kids 210 $d2016 210 1$a:$cPotter/Ten Speed/Harmony/Rodale,$d2016. 210 4$dİ2016. 215 $a1 online resource (347 pages) 225 1 $aPositive Discipline 311 08$a1-101-90534-4 327 $aIntro -- Title Page -- Copyright -- Dedication -- Contents -- Introduction -- Chapter 1: The Basics -- Break the Code -- Take Time for Training -- Kind and Firm -- Connection Before Correction -- Encouragement -- Winning Cooperation -- Chapter 2: Parental Guidance -- Family Meetings -- Validate Feelings -- Decide What You Will Do -- Follow Through -- Letting Go -- Chapter 3: Making Mistakes -- Understand the Brain -- Positive Time-Out -- Mistakes Are Wonderful Opportunities to Learn -- 3 R's of Recovery from Mistakes -- Chapter 4: How to Connect -- Special Time -- Show Faith -- Compliments -- Closet Listening -- Chapter 5: Solving Problems -- Problem Solving -- Follow Through After Agreements -- Ask for Help -- Focus on Solutions -- Wheel of Choice -- Curiosity Questions (Motivational) -- Avoid Pampering -- Chapter 6: Working Through It -- Hugs -- Eye to Eye -- Small Steps -- Encouragement Versus Praise -- Curiosity Questions (Conversational) -- Limited Choices -- Chapter 7: Practical Skills -- Allowances -- Jobs -- Limit Screen Time -- Routines -- Chapter 8: Less Is More -- Listen -- Pay Attention -- Act Without Words -- Silent Signals -- One Word -- Chapter 9: Consequences -- Logical Consequences -- Natural Consequences -- Put Kids in the Same Boat -- Chapter 10: Model Behavior -- Control Your Own Behavior -- Tone of Voice -- Don't Back-Talk Back -- Sense of Humor -- Empower Your Kids -- Acknowledgments -- Contributors -- References -- Index -- About the Authors. 330 $a"Do you wish there was a way to raise well-behaved children without punishment? Are you afraid the only alternative is being overly indulgent? With Positive Discipline, an encouragement model based on both kindness and firmness, you don't have to choose between these two extremes. Using these 49 Positive Discipline tools, honed and perfected after years of real-world research and feedback, you'll be able to work with your children instead of against them. The goal isn't perfection but providing you with the techniques you need to help your children develop the life and social skills you hope for them, such as respect for self and others, problem-solving ability, and self-regulation. The tenets of Positive Discipline consistently foster mutual respect so that any child--from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager--can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline without losing his or her dignity. In this new parenting guidebook, you'll find day-to-day exercises for parents to improve their parenting skills, along with success stories from parents worldwide who have benefited from the Positive Discipline philosophy. With training tools and personal examples from the authors, you will learn: · The "hidden belief" behind a child's misbehavior, and how to respond accordingly · The best way to focus on solutions instead of dwelling on the negative · How to encourage your child without pampering or praising · How to teach your child to make mistakes and follow through on agreements · How to foster creative thinking"--$cProvided by publisher. 330 $a"Jane Nelsen, author of the successful Positive Discipline series, has now compiled a toolkit for parents to teach their children creative cooperation and self-discipline, with success stories from parents worldwide"--$cProvided by publisher. 410 0$aPositive Discipline 606 $aParenting 606 $aChild rearing 606 $aDiscipline of children 615 0$aParenting. 615 0$aChild rearing. 615 0$aDiscipline of children. 676 $a649/.1 686 $aFAM034000$aFAM000000$aREF015000$2bisacsh 700 $aNelsen$b Jane$01245172 701 $aTamborski$b Mary Nelsen$01245173 701 $aAinge$b Brad$01245174 701 $aGfroerer$b Kelly$01245175 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910149455303321 996 $aPositive Discipline Parenting Tools$92888076 997 $aUNINA