LEADER 03323nam 2200625Ia 450 001 9910149202203321 005 20200520144314.0 010 $a1-315-22413-5 010 $a1-351-84297-8 010 $a1-351-84298-6 010 $a0-89503-591-X 024 7 $a10.4324/9781315224138 035 $a(CKB)2670000000276003 035 $a(EBL)3117899 035 $a(SSID)ssj0000780368 035 $a(PQKBManifestationID)12286021 035 $a(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000780368 035 $a(PQKBWorkID)10785210 035 $a(PQKB)10902344 035 $a(MiAaPQ)EBC3117899 035 $a962303238 035 $a(OCoLC)962303238 035 $a(OCoLC-P)962303238 035 $a(FlBoTFG)9781315224138 035 $a(EXLCZ)992670000000276003 100 $a19960329d1996 uy 0 101 0 $aeng 135 $aurcnu---unuuu 181 $ctxt 182 $cc 183 $acr 200 10$aMending the torn fabric $efor those who grieve and those who want to help them /$fSarah Brabant 210 $aAmityville, N.Y. $cBaywood Pub. Co.$dc1996 215 $a1 online resource (171 p.) 225 0$aDeath, value, and meaning series 300 $aOriginally published: Amityville, N.Y. : Baywood Pub. Co., ©1996. 311 $a0-89503-141-8 320 $aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 145-146) and index. 327 $a""Mending the Torn Fabric: For Those Who Grieve and Those Who Want to Help Them""; ""Cover""; ""Title Page""; ""Copyright Page""; ""CONTENTS""; ""Chapter 1 The Torn Fabric""; ""Chapter 2 Places To Mend""; ""Chapter 3 Places To Avoid""; ""Chapter 4 How Many Tears?""; ""Chapter 5 Earlier Tears""; ""Chapter 6 Future Tears""; ""Chapter 7 Needles And Threads""; ""Chapter 8 Complicated Mending""; ""Chapter 9 The Mended Fabric""; ""Chapter 10 Guidelines For Those Who Want to Help""; ""Chapter 11 Notes for the Professional: Theoretical Underpinnings and Use of Analogy ""; ""Bibliography"" 327 $a""Resources for Bereaved Persons""""Suggested Readings/Nideos""; ""Index""; ""Select Titles from the: Death, Value and Meaning Series""; ""Back Cover"" 330 $aThe analogy of the torn fabric was first used by the author in response to a bereaved mother's cry: "I know what grief feels like; I don't know what it looks like." In "Mending the Torn Fabric: For Those Who Grieve and Those Who Want to Help Them", the author expands the metaphor to include earlier and future or potential losses as well as losses associated with the death that may be unrecognized or minimized. This book includes chapters that examine complications that may be present or may arise, suggestions for mending even the most torn fabric, and a chapter dedicated to friends who want to help. Stories bereaved persons have shared with the author through the years are interspersed throughout the book to provide examples of loss and mending. 410 0$aDeath, value, and meaning series. 606 $aBereavement$xPsychological aspects 606 $aGrief 615 0$aBereavement$xPsychological aspects. 615 0$aGrief. 676 $a155.9/37 700 $aBrabant$b Sarah$0930076 801 0$bMiAaPQ 801 1$bMiAaPQ 801 2$bMiAaPQ 906 $aBOOK 912 $a9910149202203321 996 $aMending the torn fabric$92091828 997 $aUNINA