03558nam 2200613Ia 450 991081672540332120200520144314.01-280-94712-897866109471260-8135-3926-91-4294-0239-310.36019/9780813539263(CKB)1000000000464991(EBL)1021850(OCoLC)71844508(SSID)ssj0000109346(PQKBManifestationID)11129597(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000109346(PQKBWorkID)10068672(PQKB)11620468(DE-B1597)529263(OCoLC)1121057321(DE-B1597)9780813539263(MiAaPQ)EBC1021850(EXLCZ)99100000000046499120050711d2006 ub 0engurun#---auuuutxtrdacontentcrdamediacrrdacarrier"Be not deceived" the sacred and sexual struggles of gay and ex-gay Christian men /Michelle Wolkomir1st ed.New Brunswick, N.J. Rutgers University Pressc20061 online resource (xiv, 225 pages)0-8135-3821-1 Includes bibliographical references (p. 211-218) and index.Front matter --Contents --Acknowledgments --Prologue --Part I. The Cultural Origins and Biographical Paths of the Dilemma --Part II. The Resolution of Dilemmas and the Transformative Process --Appendix --Notes --References --IndexHomosexuality has become increasingly accepted in mainstream America over the past two decades. Yet despite indications of progress that can be found everywhere from academia to popular culture, gay men and women remain the target of much discrimination and stigma, particularly within conservative Christianity. In Be Not Deceived, Michelle Wolkomir explores the difficult dilemma that gay Christians face in their attempts to reconcile their religious and sexual identities. She introduces the ideologies and practices of two alternative and competing ministries that offer solutions for Christians who experience homosexual desire. One organization-the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches-believes that God made people gay to suit divine purposes. Changing one's sexuality is therefore impossible and a defiance of God. In contrast, Exodus International preaches that homosexuality is a sin and a symptom of disordered psychological development-one that can be cured through redemptive prayer. By comparing participant experiences in these ministries, Wolkomir explores the paths and processes by which members learn to become gay or ex-gay Christians. Through careful analysis of the groups' ideologies, interactions, and symbolic resources, Be Not Deceived goes far beyond the obvious differences between the ministries to uncover their similarities, namely that both continue to define heterosexuality as the normative and dominant lifestyle.Christian gay menReligious lifeChristian gay menSexual behaviorChristian gay menReligious life.Christian gay menSexual behavior.261.8261.8/357662261.8357662Wolkomir Michelle1966-1751138MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910816725403321"Be not deceived"4185979UNINA