03199nam 2200445 450 991081363280332120191021173349.01-68403-048-X1-68403-047-1(CKB)4100000007101733(MiAaPQ)EBC5561498(EXLCZ)99410000000710173320190701h20182018 uy| 0engurcnu||||||||rdacontentrdamediardacarrierTalking to a loved one with borderline personality disorder communication skills to manage intense emotions, set boundaries & reduce conflict /Jerold J. Kreisman, MD. ; [foreword by Randi Kreger]Oakland, CA :New Harbinger Publications, Incorporated,[2018]©20181 online resource (141 pages) illustrations1-68403-046-3 Includes bibliographical references.Coping tools for BPD -- Borderline challenges." In this compassionate guide, Jerold Kreisman--author of I Hate You, Don't Leave Me--offers a powerful set of tools to help you express yourself, set boundaries, and cultivate healthy communication with a loved one who is diagnosed with borderline personality disorder (BPD). If you have a loved one with BPD, you need real, proven-effective strategies to help you navigate the intense emotions and conflict that can arise in daily interactions and conversations. People with BPD often feel anger, pain, and hurt from a history of invalidation and disappointment, and their difficulty in regulating emotions can lead to moments of lashing out that can confuse and upset those around them. Written by a psychiatrist with more than 40 years of experience in treating BPD, Talking to a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder offers a breakthrough, compassionate approach to communicating with a loved one who has BPD. The SET (support, empathy, truth) method outlined in this book is a powerful and simple tool that will allow you to honestly address your loved one's demands, assertions, and feelings while still maintaining appropriate boundaries. Each step builds on the last, helping you build up a consistent and reliable communication process. In this book, you'll find a review of BPD and the common communication problems inherent in the disorder. You'll learn how SET can address these issues. And finally, you'll find detailed examples of specific scenarios that can arise when talking to a loved one with BPD. Remember--validation isn't the same as agreement. You can help your loved one feel validated while still maintaining your own boundaries. This essential guide will show you how"--Amazon.Personality disordersCommunicationPersonality disorders.Communication.616.85/852SEL020000SEL040000PSY022080bisacshKreisman Jerold J.1648291MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910813632803321Talking to a loved one with borderline personality disorder3996313UNINA