02871nam 2200517 450 991081205190332120230720195932.01-4926-7902-X1-4926-7903-8(CKB)4100000009151417(MiAaPQ)EBC5883034(Au-PeEL)EBL5883034(OCoLC)1114967567(EXLCZ)99410000000915141720190926d2019 uy 0engurcnu||||||||txtrdacontentcrdamediacrrdacarrierMotherhood so white a memoir of race, gender, and parenting in America /Nefertiti AustinNaperville, Illinois :Sourcebooks,[2019]©20191 online resource (290 pages)1-4926-7901-1 My adoption so black -- Mommie dearest, Daddy's dead -- Decision made -- Mommy lessons -- Other people's fears -- Graduating into motherhood -- His name is what? -- Motherhood so white -- In limbo -- Looking for diverse parenting literature in all the right places (and finding almost none) -- Turning one and other milestones -- The Obama season -- The wait is over: rituals and rites of passage -- Everybody has an opinion -- Got my sea legs -- Building my village -- Heroes -- August gets his wish -- Boy child in the promised land -- Bad mama jamas -- Epilogue -- Stories of parenting so black."When Nefertiti Austin, a single African-American woman, decided to adopt two black children through the foster system, she was unprepared for the fact that there is no place for black women in the 'mommy wars.' Austin set off on her path with no place to seek guidance from others who looked like her or shared her experience. She soon realized that she would not only have to navigate skepticism from the adoption community, who deal almost exclusively with white women, but surprisingly, from her own family and friends as well. Motherhood So White is an engaging story of family, and one of the first books to examine America's deep-seated racial tension through the lens of parenthood"--Provided by publisher.Adoptive parentsUnited StatesBiographyAfrican American parentsSocial conditionsUnited StatesUnited StatesfastUnited StatesRace relationssearsAutobiographies.fastBiographies.fastAutobiographies.lcgftAutobiographies.rvmgfAdoptive parentsAfrican American parentsSocial conditions362.734092Austin Nefertiti1603864MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910812051903321Motherhood so white3928430UNINA