04898nam 2200625 450 991078808290332120230807204515.00-19-937075-30-19-937074-5(CKB)2670000000577722(EBL)1865700(SSID)ssj0001381696(PQKBManifestationID)11719010(PQKBTitleCode)TC0001381696(PQKBWorkID)11393891(PQKB)10817045(Au-PeEL)EBL1865700(CaPaEBR)ebr10989901(CaONFJC)MIL664471(OCoLC)897070257(MiAaPQ)EBC1865700(EXLCZ)99267000000057772220140924h20152015 uy| 0engur|n|---|||||txtccrOn romantic love simple truths about a complex emotion /Berit BrogaardNew York, New York :Oxford University Press,[2015]©20151 online resource (289 p.)Philosophy in actionDescription based upon print version of record.0-19-937073-7 1-322-33189-8 Includes bibliographical references and index.Cover; ON ROMANTIC LOVE: Simple Truths about a Complex Emotion; Copyright; CONTENTS; PREFACE; ACKNOWLEDGMENTS; 1. DANGEROUS LIAISONS: LETTER FROM A FRIEND; 2. GRAVITATION IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR PEOPLE FALLING IN LOVE: THE CHEMISTRY OF LOVE; Your Brain on Crack; Beliefs and Brain Chemistry; Taking the Drug Away; Addicted to Grief; Emotional Pain; Stress, Pimples, and Gray Hair; Love and Hate; 3. I HAVE FEELINGS TOO: THE PHILOSOPHY OF LOVE; Love as an Emotion; Basic and Complex Emotions; Is Love a Bodily Sensation?; Uniting Body and World; Strange Connections; Emotional Responses to FictionPerceived Responses4. HOPELESSLY DEVOTED TO YOU: IRRATIONAL LOVE; Does the Idea of Irrational Love Make Sense?; You Call It Madness, I Call It Love; Irrational Compassionate Love; The Transcendent View of Love; Love as a History; Personal Identity and the Value of Our Beloveds; Is Love Unconditional?; 5. WHY WAS I HOLDING ONTO SOMETHING THAT WOULD NEVER BE MINE?: RELATIONSHIPS AND LOV EATTACHMENT; Secure versus Insecure Attachment; Childish Relationships; Avoidant Attachment; Anxious Attachment; Familiar Love; Jealousy and Anxious Attachment; Avoidance and Love as a HistoryCan Attachment Styles Change?Attachment Love; Can Animals Love?; 6. SOMETIMES THE HEART SEES WHAT IS INVISIBLE TO THE EYE: UNCONSCIOUS LOVE; Opponents of Unconscious Affection; Unconscious Affect; Two Emotional Pathways; Unconscious Love; In Your Dreams; Is Love a Disposition?; 7. HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU: AND OTHER IN-BETWEEN CASES OF LOVE; Prototypes; "Love" Is Gradable; He's Just Not That into You; Love and Ambivalence; 8. I'D DO ANYTHING FOR LOVE (BUTI WON'T DO THAT): LOVE AND SEX; Non-Monogamous Love as In-Between Cases; Love and Casual Sex; The Other Dimension of Sex9. UN-BREAK MY HEART: HOW TO FALL OUT OF LOVENever Mind Searching for Who You Are. Search for the Person You Aspire to Be; Psychoanalysis and Talk Therapy; Emotional Regulation and Avoidance Behavior; The Repetition Technique; Prolonged Exposure Therapy; Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing; Deep Relaxation and Meditation; Heartbreak and Placement Conditioning; The Sinclair Method; Out, Damned Spot: Using Soap to Wash Away Your Negative Feelings; 10. HAPPINESS IS LOVE. FULL STOP: LOVE , MARRIAGE , AND THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS; Emotional Regulation as a Route to HappinessNegative Thinking as a Path to Happiness?Marriage and Happiness; Love and Happiness; SOMETIMES THE HEART WANTS WHAT IT WANTS: THE END; NOTES; Chapter 1; Chapter 2; Chapter 3; Chapter 4; Chapter 5; Chapter 6; Chapter 7; Chapter 8; Chapter 9; Chapter 10; Conclusion; BIBLIOGRAPHY; INDEXRomantic love presents some of life's most challenging questions. Can we choose who to love? Is romantic love rational? Can we love more than one person at a time? And can we make ourselves fall out of love? In On Romantic Love, Berit Brogaard attempts to get to the bottom of love's many contradictions. This short book, informed by both historical and cutting edge philosophy, psychology, and neuroscience, combines a new theory of romantic love with entertaining anecdotes from real life and accessible explanations of the neuroscience underlying our wildest passions. Against the grain, BrogaardPhilosophy in action.LoveLove.128/.46Brogaard Berit1535169MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910788082903321On romantic love3783161UNINA