04346nam 22009134a 450 991078340320332120230912133158.00-7735-6963-410.1515/9780773569638(CKB)1000000000244886(OCoLC)144077960(CaPaEBR)ebrary10119933(SSID)ssj0000278813(PQKBManifestationID)11247113(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000278813(PQKBWorkID)10259764(PQKB)10149813(CaPaEBR)400107(CaBNvSL)gtp00521386 (Au-PeEL)EBL3330561(CaPaEBR)ebr10132742(OCoLC)929120759(DE-B1597)655879(DE-B1597)9780773569638(VaAlCD)20.500.12592/89r3nv(schport)gibson_crkn/2009-12-01/1/400107(MiAaPQ)EBC3330561(MiAaPQ)EBC3243566(EXLCZ)99100000000024488620040809d2002 uy 0engurcn|||||||||txtccrDon't tell[electronic resource] the sexual abuse of boys /Michel Dorais ; translated by Isabel Denholm MeyerMontreal McGill-Queen's University Press20021 online resource (219 p.)Translation of: Ça arrive aussi aux garçons.0-7735-2261-1 0-7735-2260-3 Includes bibliographical references (p. [187]-193) and index.Front Matter -- Contents -- Acknowledgments -- Author’s Preface -- Translator’s Preface -- Don’t Tell Anyone -- It Never Happens to Boys? -- Vulnerable and Trapped: How Sexual Abuse Comes About -- The Secret of the “Men’s House”: How Victims Perceive Sexual Abuse -- Coming to Terms with Abuse: Confused Emotions -- “Why Me?”: Identity Confusion -- From Nightmares to Fantasies: Coping Strategies and Life Scripts -- To Turn the Page or to Rewrite It? Prevention and Intervention -- Epilogue -- Appendices -- Profile of Respondents in Sample -- Research Method -- Notes -- IndexDon't Tell examines the effects of sexual abuse on the emotional and sexual life of men, including their sense of self and their personal relationships. Using the first-hand accounts of victims Dorais shows that certain reactions are specific to male victims of abuse as they attempt to preserve a sense of physical integrity and masculinity. He also provides innovative strategies for both prevention and treatment that will be of use to those who have suffered abuse as well as to their families and all those who are trying to help them - spouses, friends, social workers, and therapists.Sexually abused boysMale sexual abuse victimsSexually abused childrenPsychologyChild sexual abusePsychological aspectsMasculinityChild sexual abusePreventionEnfants victimes d'abus sexuelsAbus sexuels à l'égard des enfantsHommes victimes d'abus sexuelsEnfants victimes d'abus sexuelsPsychologieAbus sexuels à l'égard des enfantsAspect psychologiqueMasculinitéAbus sexuels à l'égard des enfantsPréventionSexually abused boys.Male sexual abuse victims.Sexually abused childrenPsychology.Child sexual abusePsychological aspects.Masculinity.Child sexual abusePrevention.Enfants victimes d'abus sexuels.Abus sexuels à l'égard des enfants.Hommes victimes d'abus sexuels.Enfants victimes d'abus sexuelsPsychologie.Abus sexuels à l'égard des enfantsAspect psychologique.Masculinité.Abus sexuels à l'égard des enfantsPrévention.362.76/083/41Dorais Michel1101977MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910783403203321Don't tell3763375UNINA