05068nam 2200637 450 991047893110332120210806185011.01-4522-9766-5(CKB)3710000000456852(EBL)1652048(OCoLC)922907817(SSID)ssj0001531642(PQKBManifestationID)12588342(PQKBTitleCode)TC0001531642(PQKBWorkID)11463796(PQKB)10342002(MiAaPQ)EBC1994127(EXLCZ)99371000000045685220150819h20082008 uy 0engur|n|---|||||txtccrWorking with parents of bullies and victims /Walter B. Roberts, Jr. ; indexer, Junice Oneida ; cover designer, Scott Van AttaThousand Oaks, California :Corwin Press,2008.©20081 online resource (153 p.)Description based upon print version of record.1-4129-5103-8 Includes bibliographical references and index.""Cover""; ""Contents""; ""Preface""; ""Acknowledgments""; ""About the Author""; ""Chapter 1 - Every Parentâ€?s Nightmareâ€?and Yours, Too!""; ""Who will Benefit from this Book?""; ""The High Cost of Ignoring the Problem""; ""How Educators have Overlooked Parents as Partners""; ""How to Use this Book with Parents""; ""Chapter 2 - What Bullying and Teasing do to Everyoneâ€?Kids, Adults, and Communities""; ""Death Comes to Lake Wobegon""; ""When Intervention Stops Tragedy""; ""The Pain That Resonates to the Bone""; ""How Everyone Loses When Bullying Occurs""""Chapter 3 - Why Parents Complain about Schoolsâ€? Responses to Bullying""""Parentsâ€? Attitudes toward Public Schools: The Statistics""; ""About Those â€œThey didnâ€?t do Anythingâ€? Claims""; ""Documenting the Facts on School Interventions""; ""Chapter 4 - How to Talk with Parents Whose Children are Bullied""; ""Parents of Bullied Children: The Two Camps""; ""Working with the Actively Involved Parent""; ""Working with the Less Actively Involved Parent""; ""The â€œInverted Curveâ€? and Tension Cycle""; ""Chapter 5 - How to Work with Parents Whose Children Bully Others""""Some Things to Keep in Mind about the Families of Aggressive Children""""Televisionâ€?s Impact on Children and Bullying""; ""Kissing a Plan Increases the Chances of Success for Everyone""; ""Chapter 6 - The Parent Who Refuses to Cooperate""; ""Subverting the Dominant Paradigm""; ""Conflict Resolution with Parents Who Refuse to Cooperate""; ""Eleven Global Approaches toward Conflict Resolution""; ""Chapter 7 - Types of Difficult Parents""; ""The Parent Bully""; ""The Silent Treatment""; ""The Staller""; ""The Negative""; ""The Complainer""; ""Know-it-alls""; ""Angels""""What about Mediation and Negotiation?""""Chapter 8 - Helping Parents Talk at Home with Their Children about Misbehaviors""; ""Helping Parents Understand Punishment, Accountability, and Restitution""; ""Restorative Justice""; ""Helping Parents Help Their Child Think about Righting a Wrong""; ""What Happens after that First Step?""; ""Chapter 9 - Seven Talking Points for Helping Parents Talk to Children about Being Bullied""; ""Talking Point 1: Help Parents Understand the Importance of Listening to Their Childâ€?s Concerns about Bullying and Teasing""""Talking Point 2: Asking the Right Questions will Likely Increase Parent-Child Communication""""Talking Point 3: Parents want to Obtain as many Details as Possible in an Understanding Fashion""; ""Talking Point 4: Parents Need to Assure Their Children That They will Work with Them to Find a Solution to the Problem""; ""Talking Point 5: Parents should ask the Childâ€?s Opinions and Concerns about Discussing the Situation with School Personnel""; ""Talking Point 6: Encourage the Child not to Respond to Provocation with Violence""""Talking Point 7: Parents should Encourage Their Child to ask Those in a Supervisory Capacity for Assistance""The author explores common concerns about bullying, provides sample dialogues with parents of bullies and victims, and presents an eight-point plan for communicating with parents.Bullying in schoolsPreventionSchool management and organizationParent participationSchool violencePreventionElectronic books.Bullying in schoolsPrevention.School management and organizationParent participation.School violencePrevention.371.782Roberts Walter B.Jr.,247581Oneida JuniceVan Atta ScottMiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910478931103321Working with parents of bullies and victims2205733UNINA