03691nam 2200637Ia 450 991045057570332120200520144314.01-280-56661-297866106278131-84642-482-8(CKB)1000000000338115(EBL)290897(OCoLC)228171136(SSID)ssj0000210286(PQKBManifestationID)11207353(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000210286(PQKBWorkID)10268143(PQKB)10010361(MiAaPQ)EBC290897(Au-PeEL)EBL290897(CaPaEBR)ebr10141175(CaONFJC)MIL56661(EXLCZ)99100000000033811520051201d2006 uy 0engur|n|---|||||txtccrNew families, old scripts[electronic resource] a guide to the language of trauma and attachment in adoptive families /Caroline Archer and Christine Gordon ; foreword by Alan BurnellLondon ;Philadelphia Jessica Kinglsey Publishers20061 online resource (253 p.)Description based upon print version of record.1-84310-258-7 Includes bibliographical references (p. 241-246) and index.New Families, Old Scripts:A Guide to the Language of Traumaand Attachment in Adoptive Families; Contents; FOREWORD; AN INTRODUCTION TO THE LANGUAGE OF TRAUMA AND PARENT MENTORING; INTRODUCING THE FAMILIES; Alphabet of Issues; Accent on change: Jemima Crackit and the new family script; Aggressive and angry behaviour; Attentionseeking/attention needing; Basicbuilding blocks of the brain; Bedtimeand sleep; Controlissues; Cracking the code:Jemima Crackit and Panicchiodevelop a shared language; Cradlingfor closeness and comfort; Criticalconnections; Dealingwith danger; DissociativeconnectionsDissociativestatesEatingand food issues; Emotionaloutbursts; Fis for feelings, not just 'fight,flight and freeze'; F1 kids:Fast forward; Gamesto encourage attachment; 'Good'child(or am I being 'good enough'?); Impacton adoptive parentsof living with violentand threatening behaviour; Lookingafter ourselves; Managingseparations; No:When parents say 'no'; Nutrition; Puttingit all behind usThose 'need to know' questions(Why, How, Who, What?); Puzzlingpain responses; Reassuranceor validation?; Rivalrybetween siblings; Rudenessand swearing; Self-regulation(managingarousal); SensoryissuesSexualisedbehaviourTaking,borrowing, stealing?; Terribleshame; Thinktoddler think (T3); Whatnot to do!; Your way forward:Final reflections; REFERENCES, RECOMMENDED READING AND RESOURCES; INDEXMost adopted children and their families will, sooner or later, encounter the challenges of dealing with unresolved attachment issues or early traumatic experiences. This book is an accessible introduction to understanding these challenges and helping children and their families to develop a shared language and understanding of one another.Adoptive parentsHandbooks, manuals, etcParentingHandbooks, manuals, etcProblem childrenHandbooks, manuals, etcElectronic books.Adoptive parentsParentingProblem children649/.145Archer Caroline1948-945533Gordon Christine801796MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910450575703321New families, old scripts2149741UNINA