04767nam 2200649Ia 450 991045048620332120200520144314.01-281-82488-797866118248841-4237-2301-5(CKB)1000000000246543(EBL)3035142(SSID)ssj0000174247(PQKBManifestationID)11156017(PQKBTitleCode)TC0000174247(PQKBWorkID)10176586(PQKB)11191702(MiAaPQ)EBC3035142(Au-PeEL)EBL3035142(CaPaEBR)ebr10092055(OCoLC)923695016(EXLCZ)99100000000024654320050310d2005 uy 0engur|n|---|||||txtccrParenting with your ex[electronic resource] working together for your child's best interest /by Brette McWhorter Sember1st ed.Naperville, Ill. Sphinx Pub.20051 online resource (375 p.)Bound in back-to-back format with separate sections for the residential and nonresidential parent.Includes index.1-57248-479-9 ""Residential Parent""; ""Copyright Page""; ""Dedication ""; ""Acknowledgement""; ""Contents""; ""Preface""; ""Introduction""; ""Chapter 1: Facing Reality""; ""Understanding Terms""; ""Do Not Get Hung Up on Words""; ""Things Will Not Be the Same""; ""Look at the Other Side""; ""Let Go of Anger and Blame""; ""Ways to Move Forward""; ""Dealing with Loss""; ""Respect the Other Parent's Time""; ""Changing the Schedule""; ""Ways to Focus on Your Child""; ""Chapter 2: Your Changing Relationship with Your Child""; ""The Effects of Divorce""; ""Children's Common Reaction to Divorce""""Reactions by Ages""""Gender Differences""; ""Riding the Ups and Downs""; ""Dealing with the Bad Times""; ""Symptoms of Depression in Children""; ""Anger and Resentment""; ""Do Not Say Anything Bad about the Other Parent""; ""Dealing with the Fear of Abandonment""; ""Dealing with Divided Loyalties""; ""Dealing with Your Changing Feelings""; ""Dealing with Your Child's Changing Feelings""; ""Chapter 3: Communicating with Your Child""; ""What You Should Say to Your Child""; ""Things to Say to Your Child""; ""Things Your Should Not Say""; ""Things Not to Say to Your Child""""Listening to Your Child""""Chapter 4: Rules for Your Child""; ""Whose Rules: Yours or the Other Parent's""; ""Creating Rules Together""; ""Rules to Discuss with the Other Parent""; ""Discussing Rules with Your Child""; ""Sample House Rules List""; ""Sample Sticker Chart""; ""Sample Contract with a Teen""; ""Creating Your Own Rules""; ""The Other Parent's Rules""; ""Rules that are Wrong""; ""Misinformation""; ""Bending the Rules""; ""Changing Rules for Your Changing Child""; ""When Rules are Broken""; ""Final Thoughts about Rules""; ""Tips for Making Rules that Work""""Chapter 5: Rules for Yourself""""Deal with Your Emotions""; ""Tips for Dealing wih Your Emotions""; ""Work with the Other Parent""; ""Do Not Speak Negatively about the Other Parent""; ""Talk to Your Child""; ""Respect Visitation""; ""Avoid Confrontations""; ""Talk Honestly, but Carefully about the Divorce""; ""Make Real Promises to Your Child""; ""Be on Time""; ""Make the Best of It""; ""Rules to Live By""; ""Chapter 6: Communicating with the Other Parent""; ""Try to Develop a New Relationship""; ""Set Co-Parenting Rules for Yourselves""; ""Be Flexible""""Develop a Written Schedule Together""""Bite Your Tongue""; ""Divide Responsibilities""; ""Arguments""; ""Setting Up Times to Talk""; ""Getting Help""; ""When All Else Fails: Try the Business Transaction Approach""; ""When It is Unbearable""; ""Parenting Communication Rules""; ""Chapter 7: Encouraging and Assisting With Visitation""; ""Talking to Your Child about Visitation""; ""Things to Say to Your Child about Visitation""; ""Things Not to Say to Your Child about Visitation""; ""Your Responsibility for Visitation""; ""When Your Child does not want to Go""""When Your Child would rather be There""Parenting, Part-timeDivorced parentsChildren of divorced parentsElectronic books.Parenting, Part-time.Divorced parents.Children of divorced parents.649/.1/08653Sember Brette McWhorter1968-863484MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910450486203321Parenting with your ex2065321UNINA