02173nam 2200469 450 991015468650332120230808200758.00-7611-8900-9(CKB)3710000000971793(MiAaPQ)EBC4439241(EXLCZ)99371000000097179320170601h20162016 uy 0engurcnu||||||||rdacontentrdamediardacarrierParentspeak what's wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say instead /Jennifer LehrNew York :Workman Publishing,2016.©20161 online resource (276 pages)0-7611-8151-2 "Good job!" -- "Who's a big boy?" -- "You're so cute!" -- "Give grandma a kiss!" -- "Be careful!" -- "Can you say thank you?" -- "Share!" -- "Say sorry!"-- "Here comes the tickle monster!" -- "You're okay!" -- "Behave yourself!" -- "I said, right now!" -- "Do you want a time out?" -- "Do you want a spanking?"."Imagine if every time you praise your child with "Good job!" you're actually doing more harm than good, offering meaningless approval instead of actually engaging with your child? Or that insisting "Can you say thank you?" is exactly the wrong way to go about teaching manners? Jennifer Lehr is a smart, funny, fearless writer who takes on "parentspeak" and, in the process, offers a conscious, compassionate approach to parenting"--Provided by publisher.Parent speak :what's wrong with how we talk to our children--and what to say insteadSuccess in childrenChildrenConduct of lifeInterpersonal communication in childrenChild rearingSuccess in children.ChildrenConduct of life.Interpersonal communication in children.Child rearing.649.7Lehr Jennifer1969-1249753MiAaPQMiAaPQMiAaPQBOOK9910154686503321Parentspeak2896007UNINA