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Record Nr.

UNINA9910784396103321

Autore

Thompson Becky W

Titolo

Mothering without a compass [[electronic resource] ] : white mother's love, Black son's courage / / Becky Thompson

Pubbl/distr/stampa

Minneapolis, : University of Minnesota Press, c2000

ISBN

0-8166-9187-8

Descrizione fisica

1 online resource (178 p.)

Disciplina

306.874/3

Soggetti

Lesbian mothers - Family relationships - United States

Women, White - Family relationships - United States

African American young men - Family relationships

Children of gay parents - Family relationships - United States

Mothers and sons - United States

Lingua di pubblicazione

Inglese

Formato

Materiale a stampa

Livello bibliografico

Monografia

Note generali

Description based upon print version of record.

Nota di bibliografia

Includes bibliographical references (p. 167-[168]).

Nota di contenuto

Contents; Put my head in her hands, our two heads together; Witness to the telling; Limb from limb; Telling, not telling, still hurting; What part of the story do I tell?; Heart on the table, in my hands; In the age of no innocence; Lost time, in time, on time, with time; In the gaze, in the tone of the voice; Much of the script, already written; Father love; Mother love; Sex education in the 1990's; So grown; Sand beneath my feet, the tide takes its turn; Acknowledgments; Notes

Sommario/riassunto

"In 1997, Becky Thompson began parenting nine-year-old Adrian at the request of his mother, changing both of their lives forever. Mothering without a Compass is the story of Thompson's first year as the white lesbian "sudden-mother" of an African American boy. From the everyday yet sometimes overwhelming tasks of finding Adrian a school and debating the significance of action figures, to unexpected discussions about who pays whom at the sperm bank and the more complicated matters of racism, sexuality, nontraditional families, open adoption, love, and loss, Thompson gives us an absorbing and often humorous account of her experience with antiracist, multicultural parenting." "Mothering without a Compass relates a lesbian parent's struggle to help her child grow up and describes the complexities



facing children who have more than one family."--BOOK JACKET.