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Record Nr.

UNINA9910451867403321

Autore

Montemurro Beth <1972->

Titolo

Something old, something bold [[electronic resource] ] : bridal showers and bachelorette parties / / Beth Montemurro

Pubbl/distr/stampa

New Brunswick, N.J., : Rutgers University Press, c2006

ISBN

1-280-94699-7

9786610946990

0-8135-3944-7

Descrizione fisica

1 online resource (242 p.)

Disciplina

392.50973

Soggetti

Showers (Parties) - United States - History

Bachelorette parties - United States - History

Marriage customs and rites

Electronic books.

Lingua di pubblicazione

Inglese

Formato

Materiale a stampa

Livello bibliografico

Monografia

Note generali

Description based upon print version of record.

Nota di bibliografia

Includes bibliographical references (p. 205-214) and index.

Nota di contenuto

Front matter -- Contents -- Illustrations -- Acknowledgments -- 1. Introduction: Joining the Party -- 2. Origins of Bridal Showers and Bachelorette Parties -- 3. Something Old: Etiquette, Tradition, and Femininity at Bridal Showers -- 4. Something Borrowed and Blue: The Bachelorette Party -- 5. Something New: Consumption, Materialism, and Excess in Pre-wedding Rituals -- 6. Something Different: Variations in Pre-wedding Rituals -- 7. Conclusion: Bashful Brides and Bold Bachelorettes -- Notes -- References -- Index -- About the Author

Sommario/riassunto

Weddings in the United States are often extravagant, highly ritualized, and costly affairs.  In this book, Beth Montemurro takes a fresh look at the wedding process, offering a perspective not likely to be found in the many planning books and magazines readily available to the modern bride.  Montemurro draws upon years of ethnographic research to explore what prenuptial events mean to women participants and what they tell us about the complexity and ambiguity of gender roles. Through the bachelorette party and the bridal shower, the bride-to-be is initiated into the role of wife by her friends and family, who present



elaborate scenarios that demonstrate both what she is sacrificing and what she is gaining. Montemurro argues that American society at the turn of the twenty-first century is still married to traditional conceptions of masculinity and femininity and that prenuptial rituals contribute to the stabilization of gender inequalities